So, since I have a bit of time, and have been asked to expound on this concept (courtesy of ManniJa, so ya'll can thank him), I will delve a little bit into what makes a woman an X-Factor.
Firstly, do NOT go out of your way to find one...these are RARE women and bumping into one in today's social matrix is a lot like winning the lottery. This is one of those, "Hope for the best but expect the worst.", kind of scenarios.
Basically, an X-Factor has your best interest at heart and will selflessly give herself to you...and I mean damn near NO regard to herself. She will ALWAYS put you and your needs FIRST. It is an amazing thing...quite intoxicating in fact. ManniJa asked me to outline traits to look for and other ways to spot these rare birds, but there are no such things. A woman who might be a straight up bitch to you and run thru your money might be the same chick who treats me like gold and spends all of your money on ME...catch my drift?
An X-Factor is created when a woman meets you and decides that beyond any shadow of any measurable doubt that you are, and ever will be, the best option for HER. IF she comes to this realization, there is nothing...and I mean NOTHING, that she won't do you attempt to convince you that you are for HER. She will basically take on the traditional male role (if you let her)...taking you out, calling you up, keeping tabs on you, doing whatever you say.
Now, I'm not saying that she won't ever try you...every woman has to check periodically if her 'pussy power' is wearing you down yet. As long as you put your foot down when you NEED to and are not afraid to remove yourself from the equation for an indefinite period of time (until she is ready to act right, basically), everything will eventually normalize. Best part is, when you do check her, it only reinforces in her mind that you are indeed a REAL man...and DEFINITELY the man for her. This means that when she does rebound from a good checking, she is even better than she was BEFORE she tried you. I personally get excited when a chick tries me because:
1) I truly don't give a fuck and
2) I know that by the time I'm finished, the situation will be even better than it was to begin with.
Overall, you will know when you have an X-Factor on your team because her 'act right' levels will be high and her 'bullshit' levels will be low. She will always be vying for your attention and your approval means the world to her. So, in the meantime men, just keep dealing with what you can while you continue to improve yourselves...the more you improve yourself, the better your chances of attracting a bonafide X-Factor.
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