Yeah, he's gonna be pissed. Please don't lock the Korner Kidd! Honestly, I feel like I posted this in the wrong section. The lounge would have been better. I know space isn't a tactic. If I wanted to use it like that in a situation, I've already lost.
I kind of think I know where you're going with this, perhaps I'm way off base but are you talking about daydreaming/visualizing scenarios with girls you want to fuck in which you interact with them positively. Like visualizing how it would go from saying hi to eventually fucking them. FWIW, back when I had ZERO clue what was up with chicks I used to do this with like 5-15 girls I would interact with or see regularly. I had multioneitis if you will.
If this is what you're talking about I think it can be OK but can also be bad, it really depends where you're coming from. If you're coming from....I really want to fuck this girl and I heard visualizing stuff can manifest it into reality then I think that's not really coming from the right place. Extreme example would be a girl that gives you no signals she's interested but you're obsessed with and you daydream about all the time, not healthy.
The healthy version imo would be as follows....
You observe a girl giving clear signs she's into you, perhaps you've talked to her here and there and perhaps you haven't. You visualize her doing these things, visualize how you feel when she displays this interest for you, allow yourself to be relaxed in your body, focusing on your breath, etc... Imagine scenarios that haven't happened where you have a conversation and create space for her to be more of who she wants to be around you(who she really is). The place you're coming from when you do this is kinda a fine line though. Ultimately you would prefer to be coming from a place of just allowing her to be more of who she is and creating that for yourself and her and just feeling good. Now if you're just coming from a place of....I really want to fuck this chick. Well, I'm not gonna tell you don't do it because if that's where you're at currently then that's where you're at. And even from a healthy place there's gonna be a subtle amount of that wanting to fuck her going on...where it will hold you up though is if you can't let it go. The more you feel you need/want to fuck her the harder it will be to let the visualization go which is ultimately where you want to get to. You visualize it, create it subconsciously, then let it go to the universe and allow whatever happens to happen. No need to obsess and daydream about this girl everyday or something(I used to do this to an unhealthy level). It's about feeling good about what you envision your life looking like and being able to let it go and creating the space in your visualizations and ultimately in your life for people to be more of who they really are deep down around you.