Natural Freedom

in the spirit of this thread:

viewtopic.php?f=31&t=3726



at the end I talked about projecting...

now since You and Grinus are more experienced, I'd like to hear what you guys have to say in the matter. I'll just share what's popping in my head now:

What you can get from a woman if you decide to 'bond' with her:

-babies
-food (the woman in question will cook for you)
-sex
-affection, but not unconditional one (only as long as you keep your pimp tight mindset and finish how you start..)

What you Can't get:

-(real\unconditional) approval
-unconditional love or 'mother love'
-(unconditional\real) security

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

It's well explained in chapter 6 of oleg's book ... p 93 and following

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"The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
Alvin Toffler

thanks Goldenboy but you broke this section's rule (Kidd'z Korner) :
no worries just pay closer attention next time..

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Golden Balls is currently emotionally compromised with my soapbox moment in the Oleg thread. He knows the rule...he did it to make a point. The speed at which he posted after you did, Sniper makes my case.

So...what is your point, GB? To prove that book is just as good if not better a resource as yours truly?


...as for YOUR inquiry, Sniper...please refer to my signature.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

short, sweet and straight to the point as always...
it's amazing how one little sentence has so much meaning.

it's almost like a Zen koan

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Oops sorry.
It is a worry. I read it was Kidd's korner, but answered anyway.

My memory is fading away (or I wouldn't forget Kidd's gotta answer first). My emotions drive me ... (or I wouldn't advice Oleg's book in all the threads) I feel tits growing (I feel a back pain ...)...

It won't happen again.

But you got that part wrong ... You give me different credit than I deserve.

The time was 11pm where I am. Sleep called me. Overlooked things I shouldn't, Disrespected you without wanting to.

Either you don't really listen to my words thinking they're empty, or you should know better than to think I do not think highly of you(or anyone on this forum, for that matter).
Different perspectives are always better. Yours is clearly already on the forum. If he did remember your words, he wouldn't ask the question now. I guess your reminder did it, but for how long ...

That's all I'll say. I'll Keep It Simple, Stupid (me).

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"The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
Alvin Toffler

Goldenboy,

don't put your projections on me now.

Yea Different perspectives are always welcomed but Kidd answers first on 'Kidd'z Korner' and also:

I do remember The Kidd's words but each time I (or everyone else for that matter) get into a new level of understanding (a deeper one) - well, sometimes repetition or a reminder or reading the same thing- makes you see things in a different matter.

In fact, if you are not asking you are not growing.

Also notice that Kidd knows at what level I'm at so he might give different answers each time- but they all point to the same 'reality'.
Only with a deeper understanding and awareness - my (or anyone elses) understanding changes.

for example:

In Zen: a Zen teacher can give a student one Koan and after a while other Koans - as the student's awareness grows he might give him the first Koan again.
when the student hears it again (after his awareness grew) he might say:

wow it has a total different meaning, 'how come I didn't see it before'

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Women give to me

I give to women

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

"We're not owners here, we're just passing through."
(Denys, Out of Africa)

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