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Kidd - it seems your "game" is long-term, patient strategy over the long term. Cool, I dig it. So when you go out at night, you go to the same places, so that the same women see you over and over.

But what about when women are giving you signals, and you've only seen them for the first time out - whether day or night, do you engage them, connect and give them your number?

There are times I've been successful on the train platform, at night, etc by approaching women giving me strong signals and ended up hooking up with them, and them chasing me. But you don't do this much, doing the pimp game?

Reason I'm asking is here in NYC - there are def. times when women are giving signals into stacking evidence very quickly, but then you'll never see them again in this city. You still wouldn't engage for the most part?

Please clarify a bit more? Thanks.

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Of course. See my business trip post. The less likely I am to ever see them again, the more proactive I become.

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They are as, probably more aware than you of how likely they are to run into you again.

If they know they will keep running into you and you know it, the seeds approach works best in my view.. Give them space

If you both know you are unlikely to see each other again, without planning it, then both of you want to accelerate the process. They are going to be more open and help you accelerate it if they are interested. They know they might miss the chance to be with you if it does not run a bit faster.

Then there are the wildcards that know they will see you again and again and want to accelerate it anyway.

If you watch all of them, you will get an idea of how their mind is going, heck they will even tell you most of the time *if you truly listen*

If you met you, knew you were not going to run into yourself apart from by pure chance again, wouldn't you want to help you meet you again?

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

I LOVE this guy.

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Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I agree with Kidd - Pere you've been kicking some dope knowledge. Really impressed. Totally aligns with vacation hookups and why they happen so easily and naturally.

I love your last line...twisted my brain and very powerful -

"If you met you, knew you were not going to run into yourself apart from by pure chance again, wouldn't you want to help you meet you again?"

Before this last week, I didn't believe that about myself. Pretty crazy to think that I didn't. All fixed!

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"Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose." -Master Yoda

How does one balance the indirect communication that is necessary to LISTENING with the DIRECTNESS that is crucial to meeting again?

Is there a concept here or is it just Samba versus Tango dance?

Three little words......

Trust Your Gut

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Yeah Slim...you are hella overthinking this shit.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

Of course, I am. I still associate "BEING" with "THINKING."

My gut doesn't speak loudly.

I have the exact problem but with the way you phrased it lets me see it clearer, thank you Slim.

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“The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” — Marcus Aurelius