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Author:  Altair [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 3:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Text Game/Time reversing damage from impatience

I texted up this girl that was in my class for some stuff I did last winter. Basically how it initially went was she was attracted then very distant due to the fact I moved too soon. I can actually see it in the old texts. (We're now 6-7months later).

Her behavior was completely different this time around. Instant responses to texts, smiley faces and exclaimation points all the time. So we talked for idk prolly 15-20 minutes and then I was like.

"No good point. I'd like to keep talking but my friend is actually here. I gotta go. Cya :)"

Her: ttyl! :)

I actually had nothing going on. Just wanted to get off the phone (remembered that from the first phone call actually)

Part of me wants to do more. But the other part now knows I'd just be working against myself. I'll just let this one go and focus on other stuff, she'll probably get curious enough to text me in a month or two.

I'm more curious about the end part of the convo. I kinda debated between saying that and saying "No good point. I'd like to keeping but my friend is actually here. Hit me up sometime :)"

In the moment my gut told me to go with the first one so I did. It leaves more space. And since I got off the phone first technically the ball is in my court no?

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Text Game/Time reversing damage from impatience

You did it right...you made no commitment to contact her again...you just said "Cya". SHE said, "ttyl!"...that puts the onus on HER.

...and I have a feeling it'll be sooner than a month. 8-)

BONUS POINT: When she does it you back eventually, if she asks, "Why haven't I heard from you?", just play stupid and say, "Well, last we texted you said, "ttyl"...so actually I was wondering why I hadn't heard from you lol...but anyway what's up? :mrgreen: " ;)

Author:  Altair [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Text Game/Time reversing damage from impatience

The Kidd!! wrote:
You did it right...you made no commitment to contact her again...you just said "Cya". SHE said, "ttyl!"...that puts the onus on HER.
I see actually. Good point.
The Kidd!! wrote:
...and I have a feeling it'll be sooner than a month. 8-)
Why? Out of curiousity.
The Kidd!! wrote:
BONUS POINT: When she does it you back eventually, if she asks, "Why haven't I heard from you?", just play stupid and say, "Well, last we texted you said, "ttyl"...so actually I was wondering why I hadn't heard from you lol...but anyway what's up? :mrgreen: " ;)
That sounds good. I'll do that.

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Text Game/Time reversing damage from impatience

Quote:
Why? Out of curiousity.
I don't question my gut...so neither should you. ;)

Author:  Altair [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Text Game/Time reversing damage from impatience

The Kidd!! wrote:
Quote:
Why? Out of curiousity.
I don't question my gut...so neither should you. ;)
Oh. It's not questioning if it's right or wrong.

More just interesting in why/how it came to that conclusion

Author:  The Kidd!! [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 5:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Text Game/Time reversing damage from impatience

Morpheus wrote:
The Kidd!! wrote:
Quote:
Why? Out of curiousity.
I don't question my gut...so neither should you. ;)
Oh. It's not questioning if it's right or wrong.

More just interesting in why/how it came to that conclusion
I don't know cause I don't question my intuition...I just accept it. :geek:

Go question your own intuition. :lol:

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