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Author:  Merrick [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 11:00 am ]
Post subject:  Finish how you start & Attraction doesn´t go away.
I have two questions regarding Finishing how you start and that once someone is sexually attracted to you that it doesn´t go away.

What is finishing how you start exactly?
Is it staying the man you where when you met her?
Lets say you meet her and you are a total asshole, that you will have to be an asshole further down the road because as soon as you turn nice she´ll run?! And vice versa?
Or if you are fucking that bitch not so often you wouldn´t want to show up at her doorstep every other day all of a sudden?
Is it staying consistent in her eyes?

And with the second question, once I had sex with a chick ( I guess that is a surefire way to know if she found you attractive I guess :D ), or even just made out or whatever (unless you know before she knows)
she would do it again? Or more specifically that once hooked they might be like "whatever, I have a boyfriend now, yadda yadda" but they´d fuck you regardless if "the feeling was right" ( :roll: )?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finish how you start & Attraction doesn´t go away.
Pretty much yes to everything. 8-)
Author:  peregrinus [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 5:05 pm ]
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Be you consistently.

Be the same you.

Be the person who she is getting to know.

Allow her to trust that she knows who you are and who you will be.
Author:  Merrick [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finish how you start & Attraction doesn´t go away.
peregrinus wrote:
Be you consistently.

Be the same you.

Be the person who she is getting to know.

Allow her to trust that she knows who you are and who you will be.
Thanks for clearing that up :!: :)
Author:  Rolan [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 1:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finish how you start & Attraction doesn´t go away.
Merrick wrote:
she would do it again? Or more specifically that once hooked they might be like "whatever, I have a boyfriend now, yadda yadda" but they´d fuck you regardless if "the feeling was right" ( :roll: )?
What about a relationship type scenario- does the attraction remain once the relationship has finished, bearing in mind the sex was always top level up until the end?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:38 pm ]
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Rolan wrote:
Merrick wrote:
she would do it again? Or more specifically that once hooked they might be like "whatever, I have a boyfriend now, yadda yadda" but they´d fuck you regardless if "the feeling was right" ( :roll: )?
What about a relationship type scenario- does the attraction remain once the relationship has finished, bearing in mind the sex was always top level up until the end?
Relationships don't typically fail because of sex...unless someone got into an accident and is now a quadriplegic. They fail because one of the parties (or both parties) think they have discovered a better option, or are no longer agreeing to the terms of the relationship contract, or both. Doesn't mean necessarily that either of them want to fuck each other any less should conditions be ideal. :geek:
Author:  rekieter [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 10:36 am ]
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Ok now I see what I fucked up in my previous relationship:P I kinda felt and my gut was telling me it but didn't listen to it. Another lesson in life:P

What happens if you not finish how you started? She's forever gone? Or is there a chance to get things straight once again?

Oh and btw I know it's easier to start a new thing:) But that I got quite well integrated unlike the matter I question about.
Author:  Altair [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 7:18 pm ]
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Thats one of those situations you just let go.

If she still digs you she will find a way to be on your radar. Until then, fuck with other bitches....lots of other bitches :twisted:
Author:  rekieter [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:00 pm ]
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I'm past that feeling that I need to fuck plenty of bitches to boost my ego. With her it was just different. But I guess she digs that new guy much more than she did me:)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:05 pm ]
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rekieter wrote:
I'm past that feeling that I need to fuck plenty of bitches to boost my ego. With her it was just different. But I guess she digs that new guy much more than she did me:)
You're ego is the fucking problem. Lose it. :geek:

Morpheus...please tell this man something about the detriment of ego... :geek:
Author:  Altair [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:20 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
rekieter wrote:
I'm past that feeling that I need to fuck plenty of bitches to boost my ego. With her it was just different. But I guess she digs that new guy much more than she did me:)
You're ego is the fucking problem. Lose it. :geek:

Morpheus...please tell this man something about the detriment of ego... :geek:
I would.

But I think a trip to Meeting,Dating, Connecting and seeing all the threads I started ( until recently) would have more benefit. There you can see how my ego fucked me
Again...and again lol
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:22 pm ]
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Morpheus wrote:
The Kidd!! wrote:
rekieter wrote:
I'm past that feeling that I need to fuck plenty of bitches to boost my ego. With her it was just different. But I guess she digs that new guy much more than she did me:)
You're ego is the fucking problem. Lose it. :geek:

Morpheus...please tell this man something about the detriment of ego... :geek:
I would.

But I think a trip to Meeting,Dating, Connecting and seeing all the threads I started ( until recently) would have more benefit. There you can see how my ego fucked me
Again...and again lol
Provide some links then, kind sir? 8-)
Author:  rekieter [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:27 pm ]
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I know what you mean Kidd, I just wanted to point out that fucking plenty of bitches is not something that gives me thrill. It is just a normal part of my life now. What gives me thrills is my new career, I'm 26 and going high like a rocket:) I'm a financial manager of two african and two austrian tobaco companies. And coming from my poor background it is truly a success.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:29 pm ]
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rekieter wrote:
I know what you mean Kidd, I just wanted to point out that fucking plenty of bitches is not something that gives me thrill. It is just a normal part of my life now. What gives me thrills is my new career, I'm 26 and going high like a rocket:) I'm a financial manager of two african and two austrian tobaco companies. And coming from my poor background it is truly a success.
Man...then why are you even concerned with this bitch? You're a BOSS! :o

I'm glad you found this forum when you did...you internalize this mindset and you will be a fucking unstoppable MONSTER! :twisted:
Author:  rekieter [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:35 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
rekieter wrote:
I know what you mean Kidd, I just wanted to point out that fucking plenty of bitches is not something that gives me thrill. It is just a normal part of my life now. What gives me thrills is my new career, I'm 26 and going high like a rocket:) I'm a financial manager of two african and two austrian tobaco companies. And coming from my poor background it is truly a success.
Man...then why are you even concerned with this bitch? You're a BOSS! :o

I'm glad you found this forum when you did...you internalize this mindset and you will be a fucking unstoppable MONSTER! :twisted:
Hmm now I know what You mean Kidd. I'm getting emotional because I was lied to like a stupid fool. That's my ego. Is that correct?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:41 pm ]
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rekieter wrote:
The Kidd!! wrote:
rekieter wrote:
I know what you mean Kidd, I just wanted to point out that fucking plenty of bitches is not something that gives me thrill. It is just a normal part of my life now. What gives me thrills is my new career, I'm 26 and going high like a rocket:) I'm a financial manager of two african and two austrian tobaco companies. And coming from my poor background it is truly a success.
Man...then why are you even concerned with this bitch? You're a BOSS! :o

I'm glad you found this forum when you did...you internalize this mindset and you will be a fucking unstoppable MONSTER! :twisted:
Hmm now I know what You mean Kidd. I'm getting emotional because I was lied to like a stupid fool. That's my ego. Is that correct?
Yep! :mrgreen:
Author:  Altair [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:44 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
Provide some links then, kind sir? 8-)
So many links.

http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=409
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1136
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1731
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1648
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=384
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1803
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=2037
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1802
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=2524

And that`s not even all of them :cry:
Author:  rekieter [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Finish how you start & Attraction doesn´t go away.
I read them twice already:):) still feelin' like shit though:P Guess some more time is needed to internalize it. But i get this kind of feeling that this guy will have same things going with her as me, and her previous ex:)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:48 pm ]
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Morpheus wrote:
The Kidd!! wrote:
Provide some links then, kind sir? 8-)
So many links.

http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=409
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1136
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1731
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1648
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=384
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1803
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=2037
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=1802
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =18&t=2524

And that`s not even all of them :cry:
Haha yeah...you were a tough nut to crack. :lol:
Author:  Altair [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 8:54 pm ]
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Yeah the road was hard.

But there`s nothing like some early 20`s win. :mrgreen:
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