Make that trick post bail!!
Lollll! So true if he wants her back, but he doesn't.
This is a perfect opportunity to do the "green" rain dance.
@ Sniper:
Next time let the phone ring if you are really trying to get rid of her.
Sometimes you have to be cold so you can show some compassion.
Her perspective is that you are gone. Have some compassion and don't answer so she can go through the grieving process.
Also, telling you that she was going to hurt herself was just a ploy to gain your pity because that can be way to flip the balance of power.
However, she didn't play it out because she was so emotionally wrapped up in having you back.
Finally, if she really was or is going to hurt herself there is nothing you can do about it. This is a real part of the game dude, and it can fuck your head up. Imagine if she did hurt herself over you.
I would just be happy, if I were in your shoes, that she didn't say anything about harm you because that is also a real possibility. You have to be prepared to show her that you are a man both physically and mentally, reserving the right to show why and how you are a man.
Just know that if she came over to your how attempting to fight, kill you, or damage your property you must be firm in whatever decision you choose to take. Fights, whether mentally or physically, are just another way to short circuit the male's logical half of the brain to increase the chances of sex and consequently pregnancy.