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Hey big man,

so I know this girl at my workplace. I know she was into me but I'm not so much into her...
I also know she is dating a symp (or at least used to, until one week ago).

Anway we used to chat at work and stuff like that, then about a week ago she suddently stopped talking to me. Not only that but when she sees me she walks to the other side of the room

well I looked in the mirror today and I didn't turn into:




so I wonder why would she stop talking to me And to the point of seeing me and then: walking to the other side of the room?

Edit: I don't give a shit if this girl wants me or not- I just want to use this as a learning experience...
did it ever happen to you? does this mean anything?
is she testing me in some way?

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

She wasn't available before, so there was no pressure. Now that she's single again (and knows that you), its game ON.

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so she is 'testing me' now because I became an option?

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

More than likely...have fun!

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

There is always a reason.

You may not see it, it is there somewhere.

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So today she sees me at work, comes smiling:
Sniper what's up?
Me: I turn my head to the other side and ignored her

we will see where this will go...
of course this specific girl doesn't matter so much, I'm using it as a learning experience...

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

seems as if she was testing to see if you would chase or initiate any type ploy to interact. she saw that you didn't and now is back to getting some attention.

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

When I first read this I was like, "dude she's just being what a bitch is going to be."

Now, after I read your reaction, I'm like, "Sniper you have this game down."

Bravo, I'd love to see you interact with women in open environments because they are different than closed environments like college and work places.

Do your thing. I'll admit I've had that stuff happen to me before, but I've never talked with any of the females because they never apologized for being so anti-social. I just kept it rolling.

Oh I have a feeling I will get from her:

why aren't you talking to me?

then I'll say: well, last two times you saw me you ignored me now you expect me to talk to you? (in my mind: fuck you)

then she will say something like: I'm sorry I didn't notice you or some other bullshit...

I'll keep you posted...

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

The greatest revenge is indifference

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Dude, this is the same shit you keep doing over and over, calm down.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

^Have to agree with that you've done this a couple of times I dont remember it ever leading to you getting laid. If she asks wouldn't it be a better idea to say "I have no idea what you're talking about" this way you're indifferent and unaffected by her little games.

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Don't be sexist, bitches hate that.

Here's a fun fact: Sometimes...when you TRULY don't care about getting laid...is when you get laid.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

I wasn't talking about getting laid, but overcoming his anger and lack of patience (which is more important).

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

I was thinking more so along the lines of a physical reward but I guess your thinking of more important things.

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Don't be sexist, bitches hate that.

Sex is not a reward.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

Oh right, good point!

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Don't be sexist, bitches hate that.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Was directed at AZT mayne.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

It is for her.....

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.