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Author:  Sniper [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 10:32 am ]
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Hey Kidd and Grinus,
help needed SOS :shock:

Ok here is the thing, remember the girl I was seeing?
well I decided to end it with her (as you already know....)

Now, is was just a casual relationship as I already mentioned in my other post.

I also mentioned that I didn't promise her anything And that I told her I'm not looking for anything serious. I didn't lie to her, manipulate her or promise her anything from the beginning.

This morning when I woke up I saw 8 missed calls by her. When she called the 9'th time I answered the phone. She talked to me crying :cry: (of course) then she said she loves me :|
then she said that although I didn't promise her anything and she knew it was just a casual thing she fell in love with me :roll: :?

Now she says that if I leave her she is going to hurt herself :shock: :|

shit, what am I going to do now??




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Author:  peregrinus [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 1:56 pm ]
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Grow some balls and be a man.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 2:37 pm ]
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Author:  Sniper [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 4:18 pm ]
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Ok I see, just relax.....

I never had anything like this happen to me so I panicked. She knew what I wanted from the begining and she can't say I mislead her. This shit is like something I saw in a movie, I never thought it would happen to me. Now I just got to figure out what I say to her & how I will say it...
Author:  Sniper [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 4:32 pm ]
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OK I just spoke with her and told her to pull herself together. She said she is not really going to hurt herself and it was just a moment of weakness.

Anyway, it is done...over.

Good
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 5:09 pm ]
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With great power comes great responsibility. :mrgreen:
Author:  Scottie Pimpin' [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 3:28 am ]
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Make that trick post bail!!
Author:  Slim Titan [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 5:08 am ]
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Scottie Pimpin' wrote:
Make that trick post bail!!
Lollll! So true if he wants her back, but he doesn't.

This is a perfect opportunity to do the "green" rain dance.

@ Sniper:

Next time let the phone ring if you are really trying to get rid of her.

Sometimes you have to be cold so you can show some compassion.

Her perspective is that you are gone. Have some compassion and don't answer so she can go through the grieving process.

Also, telling you that she was going to hurt herself was just a ploy to gain your pity because that can be way to flip the balance of power.

However, she didn't play it out because she was so emotionally wrapped up in having you back.

Finally, if she really was or is going to hurt herself there is nothing you can do about it. This is a real part of the game dude, and it can fuck your head up. Imagine if she did hurt herself over you.

I would just be happy, if I were in your shoes, that she didn't say anything about harm you because that is also a real possibility. You have to be prepared to show her that you are a man both physically and mentally, reserving the right to show why and how you are a man.

Just know that if she came over to your how attempting to fight, kill you, or damage your property you must be firm in whatever decision you choose to take. Fights, whether mentally or physically, are just another way to short circuit the male's logical half of the brain to increase the chances of sex and consequently pregnancy.
Author:  fufe [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 12:47 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
With great power comes great responsibility. :mrgreen:
This !
Author:  rant [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 7:17 pm ]
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and this is the person that says that i can't handle the truth?
Author:  Sai [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 7:51 pm ]
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if you lay out a contract as just sex partners, you shouldn't be treating her like a girlfriend.
Author:  Sniper [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 10:19 pm ]
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rant wrote:
and this is the person that says that i can't handle the truth?
ranty, I don't post crazy shit like you so I guess I can still handle the truth.
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