it is an anchor to a thought or feeling which validates a sense of power. you both are feeding off of each others aura. she is basking in the joys of Landing a Man like you, which is her definition of real manliness. she is your X factor because she has all the qualities you see in someone who is your equal.
look at dating and race in some countries.
in some countries ,some African Descendent, Asian, ( any people considered a Minority) Males associated landing a Caucasian woman a symbol of status.
There is a reason why Blonds do it for Mannija and Thai (or Asian) girls do it for Sniper and other guys.
there is a reason why Kim Kardashian only messes with the "brothers" ( or only that the "brothers" go for her).
you won't be seeing Paris Hilton date a "brother" openly ( she may have had her share privately
) as well as other Stars.
it's real deep.