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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 11:39 am 
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Hey Kidd,

I don't know how to put my thoughts into words that well this time, but I'll do my best..

I read your post again and something still doesn't add up. I know she fell in love with you mostly because of your 'logical power' attribute However if she is really a keeper \ an x-factor:
because you become all emotional about her just once (after you have not seen her for three weeks)- she decides to act not nice and it took like three days until she got her shit together (and after you ignored her)?

I don't see how she is a keeper\ an x-factor. :?:

I know she chose you because she wanted a more 'logical guy' but if you can't be emotional with her just sometimes - is she really an x-factor?

after all we are not robots...

for example:

Let's say I'm not looking for a needy girl (cause I hate needy girls). And I'm dating a girl who is not needy. And let's say that one day the girl gets really needy...

I'm not going to 'judge her' or get turned off by her just because of one time.
If however she starts doing it all the time- then that would turn me off.

I hope I managed to explain my point and my question well enough...

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 4:37 pm 
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I wasn't finishing how I started is the bottom line...therefore I wasn't the guy she fell in love with. Also, she didn't do it on purpose...she was just subconsciously reacting to my stimuli...just like how she subconsciously reacted favorably when I went back to 'normal'. It really is that simple. :geek:

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 9:12 pm 
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thank you for your reply, I did however give this example:
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Let's say I'm not looking for a needy girl (cause I hate needy girls). And I'm dating a girl who is not needy. And let's say that one day the girl gets really needy...

I'm not going to 'judge her' or get turned off by her just because of one time....
If however she starts doing it all the time- then that would turn me off.
you have acted differently only one time, so she judged you just because of one time?
and it took her three days to get back to her senses (after you showed her that you went back to be yourself)?

people are not supposed to judge someone just for one time, that was my point. I know I wouldn't.....

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 9:20 pm 
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Sniper wrote:
people are not supposed to judge someone just for one time, that was my point. I know I wouldn't.....
Firstly you are not a woman.

Secondly (hopefully) you are operating on a certain level of logic, rather than emotion.

She did not judge, she reacted.

There is a difference.

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 9:28 pm 
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peregrinus wrote:
Sniper wrote:
people are not supposed to judge someone just for one time, that was my point. I know I wouldn't.....
Firstly you are not a woman.

Secondly (hopefully) you are operating on a certain level of logic, rather than emotion.

She did not judge, she reacted.

There is a difference.
Oh got you. Thank you ;)

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