Natural Freedom
http://naturalfreedom.info/

Posture and Voice
http://naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=21&t=1197		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  Azriel [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Posture and Voice
Hey Kidd please bestow upon me thy knowledge!
In conversations my voice is quiet and at times my posture is bad, do these things matter to women or is it another thing I shouldn't care about?

I could try to speak louder but it would come accross as inauthentic and I could straighten up for the purpose of attracting women but that too would be inauthentic.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
You wanna be yourself, but what you describe is low self-esteem related posturing. In other words, you still have a lot of inner work you should be doing before you start trying to do much approaching.

You gotta spend a lot of time in the gym before you enter your first weightlifting competition. :ugeek:
Author:  Azriel [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
Thanks Kidd.
My posture comes from listening to a PUA called Rob Brinded he 'specialises' in body restructuring, conditioning the fascia beneath the skin. I did this and now my shoulder looks seperated I look like a walking question mark.
My question is, if I have high self esteem, which I do, will my posture matter all that much to other people or should I work on how I walk?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
Still listening to PUA's, huh? Talk to me when you've gotten all of that Hooey out of your system first. :|
Author:  peregrinus [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 9:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
Aztecsfinest wrote:
My question is, if I have high self esteem, which I do, will my posture matter all that much to other people or should I work on how I walk?
If you have high self esteem, you WILL have good posture.

It is a byproduct.
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sun Jun 19, 2011 9:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
peregrinus wrote:
Aztecsfinest wrote:
My question is, if I have high self esteem, which I do, will my posture matter all that much to other people or should I work on how I walk?
If you have high self esteem, you WILL have good posture.

It is a byproduct.
Exactly...you can't be yourself if you've never found yourself. :ugeek:
Author:  scarface [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 12:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
Aztecsfinest wrote:
I could try to speak louder but it would come accross as inauthentic and I could straighten up for the purpose of attracting women but that too would be inauthentic.
To add, 99% of the time it's pretty obvious to others when someone conciously tries to make himself sound cool; or tries to stand/walk/behave/etc. cool.
Author:  Star_Above [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 4:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
peregrinus wrote:
Aztecsfinest wrote:
My question is, if I have high self esteem, which I do, will my posture matter all that much to other people or should I work on how I walk?
If you have high self esteem, you WILL have good posture.

It is a byproduct.
This! If you have the inner then the outer naturally follows suit.
Author:  Altair [ Wed Jun 22, 2011 9:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
scarface wrote:
Aztecsfinest wrote:
I could try to speak louder but it would come accross as inauthentic and I could straighten up for the purpose of attracting women but that too would be inauthentic.
To add, 99% of the time it's pretty obvious to others when someone conciously tries to make himself sound cool; or tries to stand/walk/behave/etc. cool.

If your doing it for you, it doesn't matter.
Author:  Azriel [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 9:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Posture and Voice
The Kidd!! wrote:
Still listening to PUA's, huh? Talk to me when you've gotten all of that Hooey out of your system first. :|
No I'm not listening to PUAs they can't give me anything of value.
peregrinus wrote:
Aztecsfinest wrote:
My question is, if I have high self esteem, which I do, will my posture matter all that much to other people or should I work on how I walk?
Quote:
If you have high self esteem, you WILL have good posture.

It is a byproduct.
You're right, yet I have high self esteem and listening to bad PUAs gave me terrible posture.


Thank you all for your time I appreciate it.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC+01:00
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Limited
https://www.phpbb.com/