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Hey Kidd please bestow upon me thy knowledge!
In conversations my voice is quiet and at times my posture is bad, do these things matter to women or is it another thing I shouldn't care about?

I could try to speak louder but it would come accross as inauthentic and I could straighten up for the purpose of attracting women but that too would be inauthentic.

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Don't be sexist, bitches hate that.

You wanna be yourself, but what you describe is low self-esteem related posturing. In other words, you still have a lot of inner work you should be doing before you start trying to do much approaching.

You gotta spend a lot of time in the gym before you enter your first weightlifting competition.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

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Thanks Kidd.
My posture comes from listening to a PUA called Rob Brinded he 'specialises' in body restructuring, conditioning the fascia beneath the skin. I did this and now my shoulder looks seperated I look like a walking question mark.
My question is, if I have high self esteem, which I do, will my posture matter all that much to other people or should I work on how I walk?

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Don't be sexist, bitches hate that.

Still listening to PUA's, huh? Talk to me when you've gotten all of that Hooey out of your system first.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

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If you have high self esteem, you WILL have good posture.

It is a byproduct.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Exactly...you can't be yourself if you've never found yourself.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

To add, 99% of the time it's pretty obvious to others when someone conciously tries to make himself sound cool; or tries to stand/walk/behave/etc. cool.

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There is no individual doer of any action or deed. Yet deeds are done and actions happen.

This! If you have the inner then the outer naturally follows suit.

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

If your doing it for you, it doesn't matter.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

No I'm not listening to PUAs they can't give me anything of value. You're right, yet I have high self esteem and listening to bad PUAs gave me terrible posture.


Thank you all for your time I appreciate it.

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Don't be sexist, bitches hate that.