Yuske: Get out of my head little bitch!

Genkai: Yes!, Kill me to avoid your problem!

And if you want something bad enough you can have it.

Perhaps a better word is truth.

Wanting to see the truth badly enough that you're willing to endure looking at things you don't want to see or are in total denial about.

The other side of it is these "ideas" like all happiness comes from within you, space is attractive, etc. etc. they are no longer ideas you are trying to implement or wrap your mind around, but instead you are actually SEEING them because they are the fucking TRUTH. No external confirmation necessary because it is self evident, you know, and you know that you know.

I believe if you want THAT badly enough (which means you will do whatever it takes), eventually, you will have it

Thanks man - honestly though, what usually makes someone a believer is when we have finally suffered enough with our way, that life forces us to open up to and accept something else.

It's pretty normal to resist the hell out of everything we "need" to hear until it gets to that point of no choice.

It doesn't technically have to be this way, but does seem to be the way us human beings like to go about it

Kidd also has his reasons why he says stuff he does, but he more repelled and dismotivated me than made me go do anything.. I gess I will understand him in time.

The opposite is for living beings...the less you want them, the more they'll want you.

Hey, is there a certain universal, spiritual, or shit- natural reason for this? It's such a pain in the ass, how can i get a deeper relationship with someone if having that goal it pushes them further away. Hell, I'm not just talking about women either. Anytime I wanted male friends, I didn't have any and no one wanted to hang out with me.

There's no need to get overly spiritual about it -

What's more attractive to be around (male or female) - a car salesman who walks up to you where it's *instantly* clear that they are trying to get something from you, or someone comfortable with themselves, just content and enjoying where they are, maybe throwing a 'hey man, how's your night going'?

Most people are trying to get approval and validation by how others react to them, so they're basically trying to take from you on at least an energy level.

Those who have found it inside basically have no choice but to radiate it out. Radiating out the very thing everyone is trying to get

The goal is to find that. That's all about YOU. The goal has nothing to do with pushing people away or trying not to want them. That's a bullshit goal - it's just the mental inversion of still trying to get, from them. It's still making it about them and not about you

What's more attractive to be around (male or female) - a car salesman who walks up to you where it's *instantly* clear that they are trying to get something from you, or someone comfortable with themselves, just content and enjoying where they are, maybe throwing a 'hey man, how's your night going'?

Let's play the car analogy:

Assume you a car.

If you know your self worth, why do you even care to broadcast/market your value? They instinctively feel this when they see you.

Perhaps a better word is truth.

Wanting to see the truth badly enough that you're willing to endure looking at things you don't want to see or are in total denial about.
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Is important word.

Class...please understand that this statement holds true only for inanimate objects/goals/possessions. The opposite is for living beings...the less you want them, the more they'll want you.

Understanding it isn't nearly as important as adhering to it. It is what it is.