Its not about how much or what you talk about, its about the vibe you have. If you have the (care-free) vibe of a content and happy person, you could get women without talking a single word to them. It hasn't happened a lot to me so far but its really about the vibe, not about how talkative you are. If you are a quiet person, thats great, its just the perception of your quietness that matters. If you believe that you have to be louder to get attention from women, your vibe is just about how uncomfortable you are with being quiet. If you're completely ok with being quiet, then all is fine.
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