Okey, I don't really see the point of this thread but I gladly answer your quetions.
Why do I "need" (lets better say DO) affirmations on looks? Because I didn't feel good about my looks. Sometimes I liked to look in the mirror, sometimes I didn't. And the story about my close friends. They got attraction from girls while I didn't. Hell, I was doing pick-up and they still got more attraction than me (because they were not soo damn attached to results as a PUA is...).
And because I didn't know anything about beliefs and how to change them, I looked at them and asked myself "what do they have that I don't?", and of course I unconciously searched for the things that I can't change, so: I thought they looked better than me.
Well, I don't actually do affirmations on my looks. Two affirmations I use daily are "Everything about me is attractive" and "I'm irresistible" and one sentence of my story I read twice a day is "I'm so sexy, I get horny by my own mirror image". These are adjectives that don't relate to looks only or at all. Even an ugly guy can be very attractive and sexy, he might not be good-looking but very attractive because of his confidence (seems to be the magic word here lately
). Bonus question: I really don't think so. If you build confidence and happiness about yourself, so that you are content and happy just by yourself, you're in the best position to handle every kind of situation since you are not attached to anything outside of yourself. So if you get physical with a girl you surely are a better lover than if you would think "oh fuck, I need to do that, I have to make her this..." during the act. If you're attached to being good in bed, you will worry about it and you more likely will, literally, fuck it up.
