What always happens is these girls will then call more being like "are you mad at me or something?? What's going on???" This would be a push I guess
I see this as her trying to pull you, because she feels (due to her head/imagination) that you have pushed her.
In reality you have not pushed her and her pull is more likely to push you (me at least).
[note - symps would dive right in here and try to calm her down and reassure her (the pull working).. there is no need, it is all her imagination]
, and then when I do feel like returning a call and tell them I just needed to get away, they get a huge sense of relief (this would be a pull??)
This I see as negating the push she imagined from you, hence it is not really a pull but the removal of an imaginary push. This has a similar effect to a pull without being a pull.
[if you think of this as distances on a map or graph or something it may make more sense, she felt you had pushed her (further away) now she realises you havent, so she ends up closer than
she thought she was (hence it seeming like a pull), in reality she is same distance as she really was all along]
It's like peregrinus and The Kidd say, if you leave space and don't fill in all the blanks - women will come up with their own crazy drama stories in their head and do all the work for you - taking themselves on a roller coaster of emotions and push/pulls that they need.
Spot on!
Aint it fun
You could never come up with the combinations they require, no matter how hard you try to, they can though and all on their own.
You can actually kill the ride for them, or make it wilder, by your actions.