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Author:  Sniper [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 1:50 pm ]
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I'm sure some of you guys have experienced this, you try to connect with a woman and she has her 'checklist'. She starts asking you:
where do you live?
were do you work?
and it can go on....

Today I met this cute girl. We started talking.....
during the conversation she asked me:

'How old are you'?
I told her

'where do you live'?
I told her

then: :)

Her:'Where do you work'?

Me: what is this a job Interview?

Her: 'I like hard working (I don't know what's the right English word for it) people'

Me: I don't care what you like, I don't even know you.

Then during the rest of the meeting (it was a meeting of her, me and friends) she asked me about two more times where I work.

Me: 'I'm not going to tell you' :mrgreen:
I gave her my number and told her to call me if she wants to get together.....

Then, when I went to the restroom she asked my friend where I'm working :|
he told her he does not know (which made her even more crazy :lol: )

Some women are so fucking weird, they just can't let go of their checklists......
But remember: you don't qualify yourself for her she has to qualify herself to you!!

I think Corry sky talked about it in one of his videos, oh here it is:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83Fpe7E9e8A
Author:  peregrinus [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 2:37 pm ]
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That kind of behaviour switches me off instantly.

"Is this an interview? if so how much pay are you offering before I answer your questions? <smile>"
Sniper wrote:
Some women are so fucking weird, they just can't let go of their checklists......
But remember: you don't qualify yourself for her she has to qualify herself to you!!
Yes, she is flipping the script so to speak.

Why should I qualify myself to her.
My interest is if she fits me :)
Author:  Jared [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 4:06 pm ]
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I say I make matches, not the ends that light fire but the end which you hold it when the fire´s lit.

(well, I just used that 1 once...)
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 3:42 am ]
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Quote:
But remember: you don't qualify yourself for her she has to qualify herself to you!!
Ideally, yes...but if you are the one approaching, then you are the one who is doing the equivalent of asking for an interview. If she approached you, then no problem.

Honestly tho, you are reminding me of how I was when I first "came of age", so to speak...way to hard nosed. Nowadays, I don't sweat stuff like that too much...never have really. As long as you are confident in yourself, it ultimately doesn't matter. It's even more fun now that I have 2 BS degrees, and when I pass this nursing board next week, I'm going to learn to love saying, "Me? I'm a Clinical Coodinator for X company...Registered Nurse...and what do YOU DO?"....haha....can't WAIT! :mrgreen:

PS: I REALLY can't wait till I can say stuff like, "Soooo...you ask me what I do for a living and it's okay with you...then you tell me that you basically aren't doing much of anything, and yet you expect me to sweat you? For what? All you can offer me is some pretty pussy, and I got plenty of that on deck already. So, what else are you REALLY bringing to the table?" HA! :lol:
Author:  Sniper [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 3:46 am ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
All you can offer me is some pretty pussy, and I got plenty of that on deck already. So, what else are you REALLY bringing to the table?" HA! :lol:
:lol: :lol:
I like that
Author:  TheModernLibertine [ Mon Oct 11, 2010 4:29 pm ]
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It's fun to just make shit up. Like "I'm a pornograhper." You don't ever have to tell them what you do, whether you are dating them, fucking them or whatever.
Author:  Inrgee [ Tue Oct 19, 2010 2:13 am ]
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This thread made me laugh. It reminded me of how I used to get all uptight and shit when dealing with women's questions. It didn't hit me until later that a woman wants to know that she is dealing with a man who has goals and aspirations in life. That is partly why a woman will ask those questions (especially if she finds herself attracted to you and yet knows nothing about you).

Just the other day I had this woman asking me shit like that and you know what... I answered them all honestly!! Now in the past I would have tried to either slide by them or even try some rehersed cocky & funny shit that David D talks about all the time. But for the fact that I KNOW THAT I AM A CATCH makes me attractive to women. When you truly start to believe that, things just change like you could never imaginge. So why would I get all uptight about her questions, she's trying to get to know more about me. Yea sure, some of them I playfully answered after giving her shit, but thats only because I do that for my amusement first and foremost, and also because I don't want her to quickly solve the mystery that is... ME.

Thats what's so great about having confidence. She could ask you, what do you do for a living? And you could truly say some off the wall shit, like I said before I told her truthfully. She's attracted to me!! So why should I care about how I should answer her questions??
Author:  Sniper [ Tue Oct 19, 2010 2:41 am ]
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Inrgee wrote:
This thread made me laugh. It reminded me of how I used to get all uptight and shit when dealing with women's questions. It didn't hit me until later that a woman wants to know that she is dealing with a man who has goals and aspirations in life. That is partly why a woman will ask those questions (especially if she finds herself attracted to you and yet knows nothing about you).

Just the other day I had this woman asking me shit like that and you know what... I answered them all honestly!! Now in the past I would have tried to either slide by them or even try some rehersed cocky & funny shit that David D talks about all the time. But for the fact that I KNOW THAT I AM A CATCH makes me attractive to women. When you truly start to believe that, things just change like you could never imaginge. So why would I get all uptight about her questions, she's trying to get to know more about me. Yea sure, some of them I playfully answered after giving her shit, but thats only because I do that for my amusement first and foremost, and also because I don't want her to quickly solve the mystery that is... ME.

Thats what's so great about having confidence. She could ask you, what do you do for a living? And you could truly say some off the wall shit, like I said before I told her truthfully. She's attracted to me!! So why should I care about how I should answer her questions??

if we are out on a date it's Ok to ask questions (as long as it does not look like a job inteview)
but if a woman is giving me a checklist before we even went out and thinks I have to 'qualify' to date her - that is when I (and I hope no one else here) won't go along with it.

Now that I think about it, maybe I should give women a pussy checklist before I go out with them :lol:
Author:  El-Chameleon [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 5:04 am ]
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Quote:
Thats what's so great about having confidence. She could ask you, what do you do for a living? And you could truly say some off the wall shit, like I said before I told her truthfully. She's attracted to me!! So why should I care about how I should answer her questions??
That's great Inrgee !
I mean she saw that you are a man of integrity, that approach it's interesting.

The C & F seems like you're hiding something and it seems like the typical PUA approach IMO.
But well done because you also did this:
Quote:
Yea sure, some of them I playfully answered after giving her shit, but thats only because I do that for my amusement first and foremost, and also because I don't want her to quickly solve the mystery that is... ME.
And that's a healthy balance.
Author:  TheModernLibertine [ Sat Nov 20, 2010 10:41 pm ]
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I still prefer "I'm a pornographer." :P
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