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PostPosted: Wed Mar 15, 2017 11:24 pm 
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Hi there, PimpDee here.
I kindly ask you what did you learn from observing other couples?
One thing that I learn today is that bitches slaps like mothers to "educate" and males who cares more to the woman are more physical in public, like hugging, caressing, ect than she is to him (or she is doing this affection signs when he did something nice, whatever little it is, for her).

Let me know about it.
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 16, 2017 3:38 pm 
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It is like a finger pointing to the moon

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 17, 2017 11:23 pm 
peregrinus wrote:
It is like a finger pointing to the moon


He'll get there. 8-)
He spent time digging up all of my failures from when I was trying to play the "game" well instead of systematically removing myself from it. There are lots of pointers in those old posts to the right way even if there is some noise. :mrgreen:

He'll learn that it's about being a man eventually and owning himself and his life.

As soon as he begins working on his clout and finding his calling seriously he'll see the worthlessness of playing the "game" and treat it like the distraction it's meant to be. :geek:


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 18, 2017 6:24 am 
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Slim Titan wrote:
As soon as he begins working on his clout and finding his calling seriously he'll see the worthlessness of playing the "game" and treat it like the distraction it's meant to be. :geek:


It's an entertaining sidequest

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 21, 2017 9:19 am 
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One thing I noticed were the power dynamics going on in the relationships of couples I knew. Competing for attention, trying to be the one "on top", it's all a very common theme in a lot of relationships I see.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 21, 2017 8:21 pm 
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I noticed, that in quite a few of couples that seems to be working very well, the two people in question seem somehow similar - What my opinion is, more similar values, more working relationship


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2017 1:50 am 
Altair wrote:
Slim Titan wrote:
As soon as he begins working on his clout and finding his calling seriously he'll see the worthlessness of playing the "game" and treat it like the distraction it's meant to be. :geek:


It's an entertaining sidequest


It is fun. :mrgreen:


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2017 8:28 am 
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One thing I notice quite a bit is who is leading and who's following when couples are walking around. Obv it's a pretty big metaphor for who's controlling the relationship. I will see a woman leading her man as they walk into a cafe that is sit wherever you want and I'll then hear the guy ask her, do you want to sit over there? He's totally unaware of how to lead her to what she wants by just asking if she prefers inside or outside, and then picking their table for them thus being the one that makes the decision and allows her to relinquish control/submit so she can feel like a woman for a bit.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2017 9:02 pm 
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Odd I tend to notice the guy making the decision but then waiting for confirmation that is what his girl wants.

I don't pay a whole lot of attention though. It's more of a background process unless my gut flags something as odd.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2017 9:07 pm 
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Can happen two ways I think:

He wants the girls opinion, doesn't want to put her in situation she doesn't like etc, then he makes the decisions himself

He asks the girls where she wants to go, letting her make the decision


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