To clarify: you must continuously go out and observe until the feeling you get is a quieting, calm, serene recognition of your surroundings.
I originally said it may feel like moving through water. It may be different for you. The only recognition of it that's constant is that it feels effortless to explore and exploit the glitch.
I realize now that pointing to these phenomenons won't help you access them. This awakening happened to me though.
It's honestly the long route. It took three years for the turning point to happen. My mind just cracked from going out for like a week.
This happening before I started meditating and learning patience with long term rewards. The feeling of this process of letting go is exactly the same feeling you get from letting go through inner work. It's much more subconscious though.
If you have a conscious recognition during the process you'll most likely want to try to find that feeling again. The short answer is that it's in you and has always been.
The only thing you'll really notice is the belief that you can do this.
New Years is coming up and people are still on vacation. This will be the last perfect opportunity to catch delusional people thinking they'll start their next great relationship for the new year.
Going to nightclubs and bars are extreme training centers for your observation. So much is going on. If you can spot the glitch that can be explored and exploited once then you can continuously do it.
Edit: it really requires setting aside your ego though. It even requires setting aside your conceptions of beauty. I personally have different standards and only keep people off my interest list if they have health problems and financial problems. This is what I value though.
You'll find that the feeling of knowing and having that goal achieved is empty. Just appreciate it and set the next goal.
I don't know if I said this earlier, but you won't really get the true path from this. It's just a long route that points to it.
Best of luck to anyone who tries this. It's essentially the hard path that makes you think about walking the path in the right way. If you do it the inner work way and just focus on yourself you'll find that you can get to this point in a much much shorter time because the state of observation and allowing will be permanent.
Getting women isn't Kung Fu. It's Aikido. All you'll have to do is reciprocate, and if you spot the changes in your environment (glitches) well enough then you'll be able to reciprocate correctly.