Why would I give her the middle finger, that just means I'm heavily invested in what she did, no attention from the man she wants is the biggest middle finger of all.
You still think fucking these bitches is important, that it's something you need in your life. As long as you think this way you'll keep suffering. That's not to say your dick won't get hard around some girl as a biological response but that doesn't mean you NEED to fuck her. Let her worry about that. Get a life that keeps you busy and has nothing to do with fucking women and you will see how unimportant it really is, and you'll notice something else, women will start showing you how important it is to them. The reason you can't see it and I do is because you're still attached to it and it's clouding your observation skills. I was where you are a year ago, you just have to let it all go.
Did I fuck the girl? No. Did the bitch you are talking about, fuck you? No.
This just shows your mindset. And she doesn't fuck me btw, she's not the one doing the other a favor. As Patrice would say, she is the fuckee. If she gets fucked by me it's her lucky day, that's the best day of her life...if I fuck her it's just another girl I fucked, fun in the moment but it's really not this big deal you're making it to be
Don`t get me wrong, the middle finger is an example. If a stranger bugs me, put me down or other shit, I would tell him what she/he wants, in polish it's said "czo ty szukasz? szukasz chuja do dupy?" means "what you are looking for? you are looking for a dick in the ass?".
I perfectly understand what you wrote, even some pua terms...some stuff remind me corey wayne teachings. 3% man?
Do you think a "badboy" would tolerate that attitude? Do you think that Patrice would tolerate that kind of attitude? You come up good and she give that attitude? No, there are many ways to break her down. He would break her down, teach that bitch a lesson. He will tell her what it is, put her in her place and she will respect him. You know why? Fear. Bitch respects fear.
If you fear something, you respect that thing, your focus, your attention is there.
Instead of a pussy in that body, let`s for example she is a he and have a dick, I highly doubt that you would act the same.
My point is that, most of the time, people who talk about value, misunderstand it and use that as a tool to be comfortable, convincing themselves, that ignoring, avoiding confronting, is the right thing to do, because they do not want to step up (in what they believe) like most of nice guys do...and a woman, will take advantage of it like the woman did with me in this topic. Because I have to admit I was a nice guy wuss.
Even when you took 100$, you touch them, you feel them and basically you prove that are real, not fake.
So in few words, you have to "prove" that you have value...if not, it will "only" be in your mind.
I have so much shit going on in my life that I am just rapidly changing, parents see that, people around see that, dogs see that too (check one of my recent topics)...and yeah, you know what?
I am not tolerant. I do not tolerate stuff that I use to tolerate.
Here is a video that I always carry on my tablet about the subject
Funny that women look at how you say than what you said...and we talk here about letting go, stop fearing losing, but people are afraid to say a deserved "shut the fuck up/fuck you bitch" to a bitch because you will offend her? you will lose her?
because someone said that, or I should say TRAIN that, women, they do not know what they are doing or saying because are emotional and bla bla bla...?
False! women know what are doing, what they said that and why.
Funny even more, that if someone did something wrong, even a criminal, people gonna come out whatever excuse to justify that action (look at Gone Girl movie or just some news especially with women), she did that or this because it happened x, y in her life. (really? to a point that she/he doesnt recognize bad from wrong? I highly doubt
It's even said somewhere that some people are mirrors, and you have to confront the mirror...it's said that some people are put in our path so we can grow from that confront we have with them.
I will give an example: at high school there was a girl who had bad attitude to me, I didnt talked badly to her or so for even thinking that I deserve that treatment, every time someone ask me about something I liked to talk like questions about my country, she would say "oh again he starts to talk about that", and I would answer something like "then close your ears and go out of here" looking directly in her eyes. She was the one after chasing me.
Another one, a bitch I approached and started to talk from few minutes at the gym she said out of the blue "if my husband saw you talking to me, he would cut your head", it was a threat okay? So I said "no, no, no maybe I should go out one of these nights with your husband to hunt some women together, so both of you will be jealous"...You should saw her eyes, man, I will never forget those eyes of surprise...the pupils gone big. The bitch after started to chasing me and ask me questions.
So Lucid, don't get me wrong, I'm not attacking you...I just do not agree.