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 Post subject: Re: Texting
PostPosted: Tue Dec 15, 2015 11:01 pm 
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If Flux had the same text convo as the one The Kidd displayed, generally speaking, it might have seemed like reaching because he laid it out on the line and wrote more than she did, BUT the difference is not only mindset but that he already knew she had done the choosing. When you know she's chosen, you can be straightforward. It's easy then. You didn't seem to have a strong enough gauge of the situation, nor what your gut was telling you. It never, ever lies! The amount of times I've sabotaged myself because I didn't have confidence in what my gut was telling me...

Accurate or not(to Kidd aswell)?


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 Post subject: Re: Texting
PostPosted: Wed Dec 16, 2015 12:20 am 
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Leo wrote:
If Flux had the same text convo as the one The Kidd displayed, generally speaking, it might have seemed like reaching because he laid it out on the line and wrote more than she did, BUT the difference is not only mindset but that he already knew she had done the choosing. When you know she's chosen, you can be straightforward. It's easy then. You didn't seem to have a strong enough gauge of the situation, nor what your gut was telling you. It never, ever lies! The amount of times I've sabotaged myself because I didn't have confidence in what my gut was telling me...

Accurate or not(to Kidd aswell)?


Pretty accurate. Yeah, I wrote a bit more, but what you guys didn't see was the non-solicited risqué pics she sent right before I wrote that. :mrgreen:

In reality, I was merely reciprocating with words instead of pictures. 8-)

But yeah...she was choosing hard as FUCK :geek:

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 Post subject: Re: Texting
PostPosted: Thu Dec 17, 2015 11:32 pm 
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Leo wrote:
It never, ever lies! The amount of times I've sabotaged myself because I didn't have confidence in what my gut was telling me...


Um. Describe the sensation you feel in your gut when a women is choosing. Recently in my experience girls that seem to be into me produce a "meh" feeling. I'm rarely attracted to them.

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 Post subject: Re: Texting
PostPosted: Thu Dec 17, 2015 11:44 pm 
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Flux wrote:
Leo wrote:
It never, ever lies! The amount of times I've sabotaged myself because I didn't have confidence in what my gut was telling me...


Um. Describe the sensation you feel in your gut when a women is choosing. Recently in my experience girls that seem to be into me produce a "meh" feeling. I'm rarely attracted to them.


Doesn't matter if you're attracted to them or not...that's not the point. :geek:

...and that 'meh' is your brain disqualifying them, not your gut letting you know they are on your shit. :ugeek:

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 Post subject: Re: Texting
PostPosted: Fri Dec 18, 2015 12:03 am 
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The Kidd!! wrote:

Doesn't matter if you're attracted to them or not...that's not the point. :geek:

...and that 'meh' is your brain disqualifying them, not your gut letting you know they are on your shit. :ugeek:


Okay. I get it. I was gonna say I still don't know what that gut sensation feels like, but I'd assume it would be like:"I got it!/I know the answer!/I have this in the bag" mixed with anticipation(nervousness)?

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 Post subject: Re: Texting
PostPosted: Fri Dec 18, 2015 2:32 am 
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Flux wrote:
The Kidd!! wrote:

Doesn't matter if you're attracted to them or not...that's not the point. :geek:

...and that 'meh' is your brain disqualifying them, not your gut letting you know they are on your shit. :ugeek:


Okay. I get it. I was gonna say I still don't know what that gut sensation feels like, but I'd assume it would be like:"I got it!/I know the answer!/I have this in the bag" mixed with anticipation(nervousness)?


So instead of putting more of your attention on feeling more deeply into what you are actually feeling, training yourself to feel and listen more subtly - you make an assumption in your mind, then ask a question from your mind to see if what it made up seems accurate?

It's about as useful as imagining, trying to mentally solve what a food you've never eaten tastes like, and then asking other people to verify if "kind of like chicken but different?" is accurate. Bite into the food. Feel into your gut. It is literally the only way to know what it feels like for YOU. Also good news: your own gut responds a lot faster to you than dudes on the internet.

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 Post subject: Re: Texting
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Flow83 wrote:

So instead of putting more of your attention on feeling more deeply into what you are actually feeling, training yourself to feel and listen more subtly - you make an assumption in your mind, then ask a question from your mind to see if what it made up seems accurate?

It's about as useful as imagining, trying to mentally solve what a food you've never eaten tastes like, and then asking other people to verify if "kind of like chicken but different?" is accurate. Bite into the food. Feel into your gut. It is literally the only way to know what it feels like for YOU. Also good news: your own gut responds a lot faster to you than dudes on the internet.



Acknowledged.

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 Post subject: Re: Texting
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Flow83 wrote:
good news: your own gut responds a lot faster to you than dudes on the internet.

^^ THIS

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 Post subject: Re: Texting
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peregrinus wrote:
Flow83 wrote:
good news: your own gut responds a lot faster to you than dudes on the internet.

^^ THIS


HELLZ YEAH :ugeek:

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