It sounds like you need to have a sit-down with your girl, so that you can really get to the root of the issue. Give her a chance to really open up, and then began to slant the conversation in a way that really benefits you. Basically, after you’ve given her a chance to open up, start asking her questions about the type of things that you have done for her and how have they benefited her. Once she recounts the things that you have done for her, ask her what kind of guy would do things like this for her and what does that mean. Basically, have her say it in her own words that you must love her, even if you don’t; this will squashed this conversation for now and the future. If in the future she attempts to bring this backup, then you can remind her of this conversation, but never again after having this conversation, have this conversation again because bitches will waste your time having circular discussions just so your relationship can remain stagnant, rather than pressing forward.
