So the situation with that plan about calling this girl i like out didn't pan out to well because I was helping my roomy get his stuff back and sent a couple of text to J which went unanswered. So here's my current read.
When J started ignoring me, which kinda threw me for a loop. Shouldn't have sent 4 texts but I was trying to help roomy. I played into that. So I deleted them, and won't make contact with any of them. Because if I contact them, then that means I give in.
A couple of days ago the girl i originally liked A, called my friend S and asked if i wanted to come over for drinks with everyone
The fact that they talked to S and not me says a couple things.
1. A is trying to act uninterested but by talking to S she just contradicated the earlier ignorage.
2. It tells me that A feels guilty and doesn't want to be the one ending the silence, which means I have more leverage when they contact me.
So I obviously cannot end the silence, but do you think this situation is savable? I don't want to give this situation up because this is the most complex and fun game I've played yet, (and im working 2 jobs now so i dont have much time to go out and meet people) its just like chess
. And yes foresight is my weak point, just watched all 37 deathnote episodes in a day and a half. I'll to be more like a light or a near