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 Post subject: My current situation
PostPosted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 6:03 am 
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So the situation with that plan about calling this girl i like out didn't pan out to well because I was helping my roomy get his stuff back and sent a couple of text to J which went unanswered. So here's my current read.

When J started ignoring me, which kinda threw me for a loop. Shouldn't have sent 4 texts but I was trying to help roomy. I played into that. So I deleted them, and won't make contact with any of them. Because if I contact them, then that means I give in.

A couple of days ago the girl i originally liked A, called my friend S and asked if i wanted to come over for drinks with everyone

The fact that they talked to S and not me says a couple things.

1. A is trying to act uninterested but by talking to S she just contradicated the earlier ignorage.

2. It tells me that A feels guilty and doesn't want to be the one ending the silence, which means I have more leverage when they contact me.

So I obviously cannot end the silence, but do you think this situation is savable? I don't want to give this situation up because this is the most complex and fun game I've played yet, (and im working 2 jobs now so i dont have much time to go out and meet people) its just like chess :)

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 6:31 am 
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The more you play it, the better you get. 8-)

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 9:07 pm 
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Wow, I'm not sure I got that at all. That was like a math problem....

But I think I get the gist of the situation. This girl is ignoring you, yes? Have some fun with it now. Because at this point fuck it.

I know something you could do that would totally hilarious...

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 9:37 pm 
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Yeah lol what is it? and yeah im just playing with it now, its not going anywhere

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 11:33 pm 
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Yeah lol what is it? and yeah im just playing with it now, its not going anywhere
It just might, ye of little patience and foresight. ;)

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Mon Aug 02, 2010 11:49 pm 
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If you are just having fun...then you can say whatever you want.

I love texting..

You: So I suppose you want to fuck.

Her: Whaaaaaaat? (Or maybe she doesn't respond at all)

You: Sorry! LMAO! My bad! I totally sent that to the wrong person.

You:(A few minutes later) So I suppose you want to fuck.

There's so many different possible responses from that. It's such a fun text.

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Tue Aug 03, 2010 12:32 am 
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TheModernLibertine wrote:
If you are just having fun...then you can say whatever you want.

I love texting..

You: So I suppose you want to fuck.

Her: Whaaaaaaat? (Or maybe she doesn't respond at all)

You: Sorry! LMAO! My bad! I totally sent that to the wrong person.

You:(A few minutes later) So I suppose you want to fuck.

There's so many different possible responses from that. It's such a fun text.
lol I like it.

Btw the one girl texted me who I texted trying to get my roomates stuff. She wanted to hang out, so i told her why would i hang out with some who doesn't even want to talk to me. She said what are talking about and then, when i told her they've been ignoring me..she said she was working and that she hadnt texted anyone, so i asked why she texted my roomate said it was bc she was working and my roomate texted her on a day off. She also said sorry

But it doesn't add up, it doesn't explain the facebook message she was online when i sent it so she could have replied :ugeek: . And yes foresight is my weak point, just watched all 37 deathnote episodes in a day and a half. I'll to be more like a light or a near

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Tue Aug 03, 2010 12:39 am 
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TheModernLibertine wrote:
You: Sorry! LMAO! My bad! I totally sent that to the wrong person.
Hmmmm

This is not something I would send, even IF I had sent it to the wrong person.

'Wrong person' is enough, if not already too much.

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Tue Aug 03, 2010 2:58 am 
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And yes foresight is my weak point, just watched all 37 deathnote episodes in a day and a half. I'll to be more like a light or a near.
Then learn from Deathnote...that's the reason why I suggested it as viewing material. Notice how no detail is too small or meaningless. Watch it all over again if you have to...nothing is never as it initially seems.

I damn near am Light-esque in my strategy, so decide carefully who you will listen to...oh...and, pick your battles carefully.

I understand where TML is coming from, but if you "start having fun" now, you will never learn the lessons your current situation is trying to teach you...this is the last bit of advice I will give you regarding this matter. Do not let my words haunt you later.
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TheModernLibertine wrote:
You: Sorry! LMAO! My bad! I totally sent that to the wrong person.
Hmmmm

This is not something I would send, even IF I had sent it to the wrong person.

'Wrong person' is enough, if not already too much.
Leave them to their experimentation, 'Grinus...if it is meant for them, they shall become enlightened soon enough. 8-)

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 Post subject: Re: My current situation
PostPosted: Tue Aug 03, 2010 3:18 am 
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Yeah, Kidd's advice would be better if you wanted an outcome for sure. I just like to fuck with people when I send texts like that. It's just for fun.

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