The answer is no.
I made that mistake enough times before coming to this realisation.
Me as well.
I think it's the last hurdle in the mindset. It's proven to be the hardest to remove "virus" from society.
It's also the one final piece I find myself constantly on guard against.
I just make a conscious effort to embrace reality as it is. I am alone, no women will ever love me and that's okay. They only care about competing with other women, and by what they can take. Even by being pimp tight from their perspective I am simply a barometer of their own attractiveness.
There is this girl I went to school with. Nicest girl ever, I was talking to her on Facebook. Cherry picked a bit and found out she had a boyfriend. I discovered that through a Facebook status talking about something sympish her bf did and how much she loved him. A few days later she is subtly attempting to maintain my interest as a backburner option.
I view it as...
Game governs all, there are no women worth long term investment. Ego removed, I will be whatever the situation calls for. It's not a reflection of me, it's a reflection of their desires. It's a fun game, but not a game I ever think I will invest in. I will believe in X-Factors if I ever see one, until then fuck them and fuck that.