That's odd, because women want...nay...NEED to be checked and put in their place in certain situations. Most of those situations are if they are getting in your face with some power trippin', narcissistic ass bullshit. This resonates well because their own daddies only let them get away with so much before they checked them, and we all know that people tend to subconsciously look for some aspect of their parents in possible mates.
This is oh so true.
HOWEVER!
Nowadays even their daddies let them get away with endless stuff, with their mothers backing the daughters. If they have not had a strong emotionally balanced father in their life, they now need this more than ever.
They need a strong hand emotionally, something to keep them in check, or rather someone who will not blow like a leaf in the wind with their emotions and moods.
Something I hear more and more - especially recently with younger women(paraphrasing)'I love the way you will not give in when I am playing up, if you do not want to do it you will not and I cannot get you to. When you want to do something you will, but I cannot bend your will' 'You will listen to me and then make up your own mind'
NOTE: This is not a bullish, all the time, domineering type thing.. This is when they are trying to manipulate and use emotions and other games to get me to change my mind, or do something I have no interest in doing.
One even sent me a text recently saying 'I need this in my life, my father is such a pussy that it does me good' - You can only imagine how big a smile that gave me
He would say do your own thing which is good, but if you react or call them out like that then your being reactive which is beta male. Your supposed to be emotionless almost and just let them do their bullshit without reacting, that is everywhere in the community entry level up to this point.
It very much depends what your mindset is when you say it.
The way I describe it is
not 'oh woe is me, you have not called me' - it is completely calm, I am not bothered at all. You have not contacted me, there must be a reason on your side, hence why would I invite you. Why would I invite someone who is showing no outward signs of wanting to spend time with me, given I want to enjoy the party and have people around me who I have fun with and who have fun with me.
This is
NOT being reactive, it is simply laying it down how it is, saying 'throw your games away they will not work with me'. Calmly and from a position of authority, not from a position of being angered or slighted because she did not call.
She is indirectly telling YOU to call her on her bullshit.
Note to Morpheus: 'Grinus is not telling you to call her literally...just on her bullshit.
Right, I mean 'call' as in poker... lets see what your hand is, cause I am confident mine is a good hand. If you are bluffing I
WILL find out. (see above)
I like this better it's like a well played game of chess, only they have no idea that you know how to play until its checkmate.
Exactly.
I could also say it is a game of chess where you know what their next move will be before they even make it or think of it themselves
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, 2 i don't like and one that I do. So the one that I do like had to pretty much literally pull me down the hall at one point. It went well held hands a bit, cuddled, she asked to make sure I had her number twice when the other girls were competing for me, and wanted to make plans. Which is awesome, anyways i fell into her frame a little at the end of the night which sucks. But she texted me 2 minutes after she left, i ended the texting. 
. Btw I also loved The Count Of Monty Cristo. There's this guy named Robert Greene he has two books The 48 Laws Of Power and The Art Of Seduction. They're very much similiar to that movie. You might like them 
