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 Post subject: Flaking
PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 6:31 pm 
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The females I deal with have 1 strike(flake) and they're out. Should I change this approach?
I heard of females missing dates because of a pimple...one pimple. What do you guys think and how many chances do ya'll usually give?

Ps I've spent many months reading and practicing kidd's writings and all the gem threads.


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 Post subject: Re: Flaking
PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 6:48 pm 
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The chance is always there. When and if they're ready, I'll see how I feel in that moment.

I just can't promise them anything.


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 Post subject: Re: Flaking
PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 10:48 pm 
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If your making them come to you then you will have a lot less of this.

If they fuck up, I'd save it for ammo later depending on the situation of course.

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 Post subject: Re: Flaking
PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 11:19 pm 
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I don't have a hard rule. Its all about the way it happens, what she says and how she responds when I call her on it, etc. One girl might flake and get an earful of mockery and debasement and forcing her do something to make it up to me, but thats it. Another girl might flake and never get the time of day from me again.

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 Post subject: Re: Flaking
PostPosted: Sun Feb 16, 2014 11:22 pm 
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Treat them accordingly.

Every situation is different.

I dislike the word.. However, think, in what way did she 'flake'?

That will tell you her motivations.

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Also, I tend to do things that do not depend on the other person being present, especially in the early stages with a new person. So if they were not to turn up, all well and good. Which ironically means they are more likely to turn up (what a surprise).

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