Still too damn needy...this mindset is new to you...baby steps, buddy. Focus on the basics of the mindset for now...build a solid foundation. Time to learn some patience.
I guess I knew this would be the response...
This mindset definitely is new to me. I'm not having too much trouble accepting the social matrix part of it. As soon as I read about it, I was able to see evidence of it all around. But when I try to start moving past just seeing that the matrix exists is when I start getting into trouble...
I'll go back and read the threads on becoming your own best friend again, but here's a followup question - should I actively not date anyone specifically to force myself to deal with my neediness? Kinda like Grinus choosing to become celibate for a period?
Like I said - there's always several girls I could hook up with at any point in time, but I usually find them either straight up unattractive, or at best only mildly attractive (or if they are attractive then they're crazy in some way). I'm pretty sure that one girl is going to jump me in the next couple weeks - the space I've been giving her is driving her crazy. What do you think?