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Author:  caliboy85 [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 5:08 am ]
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Honestly Kidd, i don't think it would have mattered how i replied to that text..I think i lost it the last time we hung out with the lack of not setting the contract..After we madeout, i should have been like listen It's obvious that we are feeling each other and not in a lets just be friends kind of way, so before we go any further what are you looking for? If i did that then she probably wouldn't have been silent the last couple weeks and i wouldn't be in this position..I need to work on setting the frame so i don't put myself in this position again..I am gonna delete her number from my phone so i make sure i don't pursue her unless she does the initiating
Author:  aTrueRebel [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 6:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Question for the Kidd
caliboy85 wrote:
What did i do wrong?
you're filling the space entirely too much when you should be letting her take the initiative to do so. It's your birthday bro lol not the other way around.
Author:  peregrinus [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:32 am ]
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aTrueRebel wrote:
caliboy85 wrote:
What did i do wrong?
you're filling the space entirely too much when you should be letting her take the initiative to do so.
I could not agree more with this if I tried :D
aTrueRebel wrote:
It's your birthday bro lol not the other way around.
Indeed.

I do not beg people for presents for my Birthday.
They offer them.

I will enjoy my Birthday as I plan things that I know will bring me enjoyment. That are not dependent on external things or other people.
If they happen to be there and/or offer me gifts it just enhances the experience.
Author:  Alchemist [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 12:17 pm ]
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For fuck's sake...

DROP THAT ZAN BULLSHIT!!!

:evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:
Author:  Jared [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 7:36 am ]
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peregrinus wrote:
aTrueRebel wrote:
caliboy85 wrote:
What did i do wrong?
you're filling the space entirely too much when you should be letting her take the initiative to do so.
I could not agree more with this if I tried :D
aTrueRebel wrote:
It's your birthday bro lol not the other way around.
Indeed.

I do not beg people for presents for my Birthday.
They offer them.

I will enjoy my Birthday as I plan things that I know will bring me enjoyment. That are not dependent on external things or other people.
If they happen to be there and/or offer me gifts it just enhances the experience.
It doesn´t have to be a birthday.
Women visit another country, then bring me
souveniers. If I hear someone going,
all I suggest that they will bring me a newspaper,
helps me in my study of languages (IndianaJonesy a bit)
Author:  Flow83 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 2:39 am ]
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Dude - I don't have a pickup background, but that text string literally hurt my soul.

Take a step back and learn to take a look at the energy behind something rather than getting absorbed in the content.

Saying "make it up to me :) when are you going to take me out :) so when will you spoil me ? :) :) =8)" 3-4 times in a row,

Energetically, to me, is exactly the same as "i like you do you like me - please like me - please take this bait and give me something to tell me you like me"

The fact that you 'flipped the script' a little bit *content* wise is irrelevant.
Quote:
i should have been like listen It's obvious that we are feeling each other and not in a lets just be friends kind of way, so before we go any further what are you looking for?
Did you read that somewhere or is that really what you would feel to say in the moment (real question)
Author:  Flow83 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 3:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Question for the Kidd
Quote:
i don't think it would have mattered how i replied to that text
Then what might have been a good course of action?
Author:  The Kidd!! [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 4:55 am ]
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Flow83 wrote:
Quote:
i don't think it would have mattered how i replied to that text
Then what might have been a good course of action?
NOTHING! :mrgreen:
Author:  Flow83 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 3:16 pm ]
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The Kidd!! wrote:
Flow83 wrote:
Quote:
i don't think it would have mattered how i replied to that text
Then what might have been a good course of action?
NOTHING! :mrgreen:
HAH - I put that there for him to chew on, hoping that "if no response would have worked, then what response.." would have lead there, after probably a lot of mental gymnastics of what non-text related things could be done. I got the impression that "no response" was literally not an option in his mind.. because I remember when it wasn't for me, I imagine it's much worse when you are educating yourself on "what to do" all the time :ugeek:
Author:  Rolan [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 12:46 pm ]
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caliboy85 wrote:
HAfter we madeout, i should have been like listen It's obvious that we are feeling each other and not in a lets just be friends kind of way, so before we go any further what are you looking for?
. No. Cut this shit out. So serious, jeez.
Author:  Dali [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:15 pm ]
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Rolan wrote:
caliboy85 wrote:
HAfter we madeout, i should have been like listen It's obvious that we are feeling each other and not in a lets just be friends kind of way, so before we go any further what are you looking for?
. No. Cut this shit out. So serious, jeez.
It is actually included in the required reading of the Kidd!! Not shure what section.
I used that line (very lousy and timidly) with a social butterfly because she was jockin me hardest.
But, and there's a big but, if we do it out of context sends the wrong message and so if your vibe is off.
Author:  caliboy85 [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:45 pm ]
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Yeah i still think that this is good because it will throw her off.The kidd says that if she is sexually attracted to you it won't matter what her answer is and lets say she says she is not into casual dating or sex, you can still tell her that you guys can be cool regardless of what happens which will give her less pressure to come to you.
Author:  Dali [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:39 pm ]
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I must admit, I do not know what to do afterwards.

So I let the question for the experienced ones.

I did it for the experimentation part, but then I discovered I was deeply attached to her reactions and feeling like the boss because of her, and that was the most valuable part of this interaction, the external validation I recieved for her natural attraction to me. (I was the fucked up one) :D
Author:  Sai [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:05 pm ]
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it's lots simpler than you think.
Author:  Altair [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:25 pm ]
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What does the moon have to do with this? :?
Author:  Dali [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:44 pm ]
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Morpheus wrote:
What does the moon have to do with this? :?
Where's the place the moon is situated?

:lol:
Author:  Altair [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:58 pm ]
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Dali wrote:
Morpheus wrote:
What does the moon have to do with this? :?
Where's the place the moon is situated?

:lol:
I was kidding lol
Author:  Sai [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:37 am ]
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Morpheus wrote:
Dali wrote:
Morpheus wrote:
What does the moon have to do with this? :?
Where's the place the moon is situated?

:lol:
I was kidding lol
Quote:
Don't think. Feel. It is like a finger pointing a way to the moon. Don't concentrate on the finger or you will miss all that heavenly glory.
http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Enter_the_Dragon
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