Natural Freedom

Honestly Kidd, i don't think it would have mattered how i replied to that text..I think i lost it the last time we hung out with the lack of not setting the contract..After we madeout, i should have been like listen It's obvious that we are feeling each other and not in a lets just be friends kind of way, so before we go any further what are you looking for? If i did that then she probably wouldn't have been silent the last couple weeks and i wouldn't be in this position..I need to work on setting the frame so i don't put myself in this position again..I am gonna delete her number from my phone so i make sure i don't pursue her unless she does the initiating

you're filling the space entirely too much when you should be letting her take the initiative to do so. It's your birthday bro lol not the other way around.

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And what is fear of need but need itself?

I could not agree more with this if I tried Indeed.

I do not beg people for presents for my Birthday.
They offer them.

I will enjoy my Birthday as I plan things that I know will bring me enjoyment. That are not dependent on external things or other people.
If they happen to be there and/or offer me gifts it just enhances the experience.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

For fuck's sake...

DROP THAT ZAN BULLSHIT!!!

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

It doesn´t have to be a birthday.
Women visit another country, then bring me
souveniers. If I hear someone going,
all I suggest that they will bring me a newspaper,
helps me in my study of languages (IndianaJonesy a bit)

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Dude - I don't have a pickup background, but that text string literally hurt my soul.

Take a step back and learn to take a look at the energy behind something rather than getting absorbed in the content.

Saying "make it up to me when are you going to take me out so when will you spoil me ? =8)" 3-4 times in a row,

Energetically, to me, is exactly the same as "i like you do you like me - please like me - please take this bait and give me something to tell me you like me"

The fact that you 'flipped the script' a little bit *content* wise is irrelevant.
Did you read that somewhere or is that really what you would feel to say in the moment (real question)

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTXz8xMaJi4

Then what might have been a good course of action?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTXz8xMaJi4

NOTHING!

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

HAH - I put that there for him to chew on, hoping that "if no response would have worked, then what response.." would have lead there, after probably a lot of mental gymnastics of what non-text related things could be done. I got the impression that "no response" was literally not an option in his mind.. because I remember when it wasn't for me, I imagine it's much worse when you are educating yourself on "what to do" all the time

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTXz8xMaJi4

. No. Cut this shit out. So serious, jeez.

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All is more simple than you make it.

It is actually included in the required reading of the Kidd!! Not shure what section.
I used that line (very lousy and timidly) with a social butterfly because she was jockin me hardest.
But, and there's a big but, if we do it out of context sends the wrong message and so if your vibe is off.

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GMST

Yeah i still think that this is good because it will throw her off.The kidd says that if she is sexually attracted to you it won't matter what her answer is and lets say she says she is not into casual dating or sex, you can still tell her that you guys can be cool regardless of what happens which will give her less pressure to come to you.

I must admit, I do not know what to do afterwards.

So I let the question for the experienced ones.

I did it for the experimentation part, but then I discovered I was deeply attached to her reactions and feeling like the boss because of her, and that was the most valuable part of this interaction, the external validation I recieved for her natural attraction to me. (I was the fucked up one)

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GMST

it's lots simpler than you think.

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

What does the moon have to do with this?

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Where's the place the moon is situated?

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GMST

I was kidding lol

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Enter_the_Dragon

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim