Ok, so in this thread:
http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopi ... =40#p24271
...and some {girls} will keep the provider and just cheat all over him with the men with spines. Best of both worlds that way.
This brought up a question that I have had before and not been able to come to a good answer to.
What are the ethics of being the man who the woman cheats with? (ie. the "man with a spine" whom the girl sleeps with while she is still with a "provider" kind of guy)
I was an "enabler" like this for a girl last year, but I never really knew how I felt about being the guy who was enabling the cheating. Her boyfriend was a symp who lived out of state, so I wasn't worried about him coming after me at all.
What do you guys think about it? Are there any good reasons to avoid being the enabler (other than not wanting to get some guy coming after you)? Is there some ethical wrongness to it, or is that uneasy/unsure feeling I have about it just the social matrix at work?