I had ALWAYS wanted to get with a black girl (I’m white), even went through a stage in my PUA days where I would only approach black chics bc I wanted one so bad. I finally did land one about a month ago, about 8 years later
. Since then I pretty much effortlessly met two other black girls that were super interested and have been texting me to hang out.
I wonder if it is all in our heads. Kind of like how when people first come here they miss all these girls that are interested, because they are too busy checking out the hottest girl in the room or girls that are NOT attracted to them. AKA, they are focused on the wrong things.
Or like how guys who are virgins want so badly to just get laid, then it happens, and they're all like "THAT'S what I was stressin' over so much, it's not even a big deal"
So maybe because you say white girls have issues with their parents not approving, you are only seeing this aspect and are blinded to all the white girls (or whatever race it happens to be for you) who do like black guys.
I for one have a couple smoking hot, white bartenders acquaintances and the only guys they will date are black college athletes at the local schools.
I say just stick to the M.O. observe who is choosing you, and if you put your preconceived notions aside eventually you'll find that white girl you're into and who is super into you