Anything else? Anyone wanna try to nail down the subtle Fruedian slips that pepper those paragraphs?
I'll give it a shot. Observations below.
But that was the only half decent one there so I sat a few chairs away.
This is called settling.
and I thought to myself I'll talk to them after this drink. Then two guys started talking to them. I felt oddly threatened by the alpha of them. I was like meh oh well I guess teach me to be indecisive.
If you wanted to approach, you should have done it when you wanted. Using the drink as a buffer between your fear and the action. The alpha's swooped in. Yet, you need not have been rueful. You could have been patient, and observed the situation and see if there was anything to use to your advantage.
I told her I was kinda thinking about talking to the blonde.
Which would have made you look like a symp. Conceal your intentions! Or else, no need to actually verbalise it.
But one blue eyed blonde is worth 10 brunettes in my eyes.
Putting pussy on a pedestal due to hair colour
So I finish my drink and walk up to the other two girls, I touch the one on the shoulder to get her attention. Hi I'm Morpheus. She introduces herself I said I have to go soon but we should have a drink before I leave ( I realize this is a crutch but it's far better than no action on my part) We had a drink and then there was silence ( at this point I was like oh yeah
Touching her shoulder, buying her a drink, actually believing that you must take such direct action, when patience may have produced more favourable results.
There was some other thing before too. Where she was asking why I was there. I responded well your really cute and I wanted to say hi. (removal of space) but I felt like saying it so I did.
You were defending yourself here, in a way. No reason to tell her why you are there at all, and giving her the 'you're cute' excuse put you in a supplicating position. You should be there for YOU, not some broad. Given that you were alone perhaps gave you a desperate vibe. Whereas, being alone should not give you a desperate vibe- on the contrary infact.
She was touching me before and after the drink and as she was leaving for the bathroom I said do you want my number or no? She said I cannot take your number. I said I see. Her body language was quite odd for someone who just scoped someone for a drink(geniune remorse). But I left.
1, you asked for permission to give her your number, for no reason whatsoever and 2, her body language was most likely not odd, but congruent with the odd situation you created. Again, impatience led you to take her 'touching' as an excuse to 'ask' her whether she wanted your number...or not. Next time just say here's my number and leave.
I was kinda pissed for a bit..but she obviously had a bf that's the only thing that fits. Fuck her body language was someone that was completely interested or I wouldnt have even bothered with the drink.
But you did bother with the drink. Why? Also, woman are Oscar winning actresses. She got what she wanted, a free drink. Played. Probably didn't even have a BF.
I'm impatient, that how I work I see something and I do it. I have no intention of developing my patience further. Too much shit to do so little time. Yeah their beauty comes with an expiry date but so do I. I'm 21 my life is 20% over already at best.
Your impatience is fucking you up. But it's no use anyone here telling you online. You have to fuck up, experience, and one day you will understand how patience is the KEY. Very few have it, and for good reason; it's one of the hardest concepts to master.
In short they can get on my page or get the fuck out of my book.
Problem is, you were on
their page, and you got played for that drink. You didn't create a page for them to write their assets down on.