Natural Freedom

So last night, I went out for a drink with two of my friends, and this morning a situation happened when I was getting lunch.

Um so we were at the bar, it was Thursday so it wasn't very busy. We were hanging out at one of the booths, and they called up two girls that they knew. So I'm fifth wheeling it apparently .
Everything was mostly uneventful, until we were about to leave. The bar was about 7 blocks from my house and everyone was coming back to my place to keep drinking, but I was hungry so I said I was walking to get food and then I'd meet them back at my house.

The girls started questioning where I was going, and one of them gave me really obvious body language for a second.

I'm kinda refining a theory on why they do this. Sure it could be/is attraction. But I'm thinking it also serves the benefit, of trying to be accepted within the group. Both of them wanted to be accepted. Perhaps a reminent from our tribal days where being accepted when you were physically weaker was needed for survival.

The other one was today when getting lunch at the mall

I was in one line and these two girls, walked by I saw them before they saw me. I kinda caught the girls gaze I was interested in for a split second, but she looked away and barely shifted at all. It wasn't intentional she just caught my eye, at the same time in the corner of my eye I saw every guy start to act slightly awkward (not really relevant to the story just interesting).
I kinda wrote it off, with so little evidence. I get that level of jocking dozens and dozens of times a day.

But then they picked the line next to me, so that was a small mental post it note. I glanced at her a couple times, while I was looking around so it wouldn't be super obvious . anyways I get my food and then pick a seat with lots of other seats around me my back is to them. They come by a couple minutes later, and pick the table right in front of me with their back turned, (There were plenty of other tables but they picked that one).

And then I was like , what now . I was trying to put it on them by having my back facing them but they just reversed it. With the way they're positioned there's no more I can do unless I actually talk to them. Do I have enough evidence to do to that? And what do I say? I don't have a problem holding a conversation once it's started but that intial starting it I still have hang ups on. Esp, in the day. In clubs it's way easier. I know Star already talked about this, but yeah idk...

Still kinda thinking..fuck shouldn't have pussied out

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

My oh my, oh my oh my Think about it, the answer is there, so obvious you cannot see it.. It is smacking you in the face and you think its a gentle summer breeze.

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Barely? In other words: she did shift.
You 'Kinda' caught her gaze...
Are you sure? It was fully intentional This is VERY relevant.

Oh how there are none so blind as those can see. Fair enough, I am gathering you kicked yourself later.
Possibly examining some of those ones you are writing off may be worth some of your time?
Hm, evidence++
What to you is not obvious is shouting to her.. She got it. This is fairly obvious, a space or a push move. It is also called 'pussying out' as you put it later. Of course they did. Herein lies the lack of space, them stepping into yours.. Also known as the pull.

I could also at this point shout: Mirror Indeed. Hrm, I wonder, what did they want you to do? What were they baiting you into? What could you not ignore? <- clue 'THEM' Nice eh You pussied out in the line, you pussied out when you sat down, you pussied out later when you did not speak to them.

Yeah, you did pussy out.
You were interested and you tried to play it coy, you hid from them.

You were not honestly expressing yourself.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

The first set of girls the answer is so obvious...but I'll hold my tongue. SP... Nope, gotta hold it.
It's ok to start a convo if you notice the girl jocking you, in fact you'll probably have to with most of them...just remember though there's only 2 ways to talk to a girl, like you're above her or beneath her.

She's jock'n you in the line:

Above her: "You better not try and steal my salad" while said with a grin.

Beneath her: "Wow, you have beautiful eyes."

Or you can ask her a question while staying above her...or even just make an observation about the environment "Omg the line is so long" and if she likes you she'll be like "Omg I know eh" then go from there... Tons of ways!

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Thanks for taking care of the heavy lifting, 'Grinus!

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Happens
Yeah she wanted me. There's actually a ton of evidence. She was always in my line of sight, when my one friend was lying on the couch she got up to come hang out with us, Left with my friends cousin and her friend. Not the guy she was originally with. He stayed on my couch, she ended up coming back after he was gone. I heard her knock but she was gone by the time I got the door. I think she was coming back for the orginal guy she was with perhaps...don't really know.


Are you sure? It was fully intentional at the same time in the corner of my eye I saw every guy start to act slightly awkward (not really relevant to the story just interesting).[/quote]
Yeah, like her eyes changed the path they were on for a second. It wasn't like locking eyes. Bad choice of words it was intentional but I did it before I was even thinking about it.
Yeah I guess it is relevent.
Yeah, I suppose this is old thinking but I'm kinda expecting the level of body language that is in pua books. When in reality the hot ones have pro poker faces.
Think so? It's fucking hard to tell.
I was kinda hoping they'd talk to me. I hate starting conversations, hate it And not just with girls pretty much all strangers. It's that part where you engage someone, I don't speak loud so if they don't hear me it's really awkward repeating yourself. Or if they're not paying attention or in another conversation...but I suppose in her case she was wanting me to talk to her so yeah she'd be paying attention

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Yeah, I get it.

It's that leap of faith though lol

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

he who hesitates, masturbates
Star gave you great examples of how to get the convo going.

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"I'd rather have no bitch than a half a bitch" Iceberg Slim

Sometimes, all I want to say to a girl is "Wow, you're beautiful", and going away, honestly expressing that her parents have great genes (at least for me).
Though I don't, because probably many guys say this (so she knows), and it just shows what kind of girls I like (so saying it has no purpose), not which ones like me ... so the other way around (even though they would probably be intrigued, if not, scared ^^).
I still think if I said it to them, it would not have been with a pursuer / beneath 'mode', because the fact that she's beautiful to me doesn't mean anything other than that.

The above her comment, not said with a grin would have another effect.
The opposite is true I think (the beneath her statement not coming with a symp mindset).

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"The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
Alvin Toffler

Although your mindset behind it is solid it would not be seen that way by women. They would automatically associate it with a symp because they hear all day.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Exactly, thanks

And the quote below too (I didn't feel like it, it was on my mind, like IF I talked to her I would say that, but not feeling like talking to her.)

I let the story too coz I liked it.

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"The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
Alvin Toffler

And they often know already, before you say anything to them..