Please note that i write this story because I'm honestly perplexed by how their interest in me suddenly changes.
Now roughly two weeks ago, there were two girls who i thought were attracted to me. When i went to the club, they bought me free food, free drinks, and were trying to dance with me almost everywhere. One of them, i already knew, and she never showed interest like that (or at least, i never saw the signs or didnt have the right vibe until i came to this forum). The other i just met that time, and, besides the required introduction, i completely ignored her. She ended up buying only me free food
. The first girl let me have free drinks.
Now, around 8 days ago, I was invited to go to one of the girl's houses. There would only be those two girls and their childhood friend (guy). Since i had to go to a party later and the house was close, I decided to just chill at the house for an hour or two. However, i wanted to see how much they wanted me there. They almost ended up begging me. So i go to their house, but get lost like 3/4 there, so one of the girls voluntarily comes out in the rain without an umbrella trying to find me. They find me and i get to their house. However, we only talk and smoke (them at least) for two hour and have a small dinner of KFC. Eventually i leave and go to the party (which is unimportant).
Fast-forward to the previous weekend 3 days ago, the free drink girl is organizing a party at a club (She tells me beforehand that i only have to pay half of what everyone else pays). She wants me to come early, but i was busy, so i ended up coming an hour later than she wanted to. Its still really early, with only her and her childhood friend. Eventually, her friend leaves to pick up the other girl. When her friend left, she wants me to sit next to her and i did (which may have been a mistake, but she was the organizer....). We just talk for a couple minutes with her almost leaning on my shoulder while facing my side. We eventually stop talking, though she's in the same position, while i try to get some of my friends to come over (texting). Now this is where the change in interest starts.
While i was texting, the other girl, with some other people, arrives. However, she doesn't even greet me or wait for me to finish texting and just sits down away from me. I only notice her after this happened, and i decide not to pay any attention to her. The party slowly starts and the other girl slowly starts to talk to me. THEN this person i know but not close too arrives all drunk and just starts flirting HARD with the two girls (which were the only girls there). The first girl knows him and she flirts back, while the other girl doesn't know him and is physically trying to push him away, while saying to me that she likes him. I do nothing and just casually drink while watching them (I didn't feel the least threatened). This is where things gets all messed up. The girls decides to dance, and they grab me, the drunk guy, and the childhood friend. The first girl and drunk guy starts dancing. I didn't do anything as the other girl starts dancing in front of me, hips swaying and all that, so i go to her. HOWEVER, she pushes me away silently. I can't see her face since she's not facing me. At this point, i assume that she lost interest in me.
Now, whenever we go back to the dance floor until i left, the first girl just ignores me (she never dances with the drunk guy again tho, since he passed out; she only dances with her childhood friend and the other girl), while the other girl doesn't dance with anyone but the first girl, and whenever she does, she always stares at me and smiles, but I don't go for her again (yes, i lost confidence for the rest of the party). Since i had to go somewhere in the morning, i left 1-2 hours before everyone else.
What the hell happened?? They were changing signs all the time. My loss of confidence may have changed my vibe, but it only happened during the middle of the party. There was no indication that the other girl lost interest in me before that day. Was it simply because i gave too much space/was too passive? (We never texted each other during the weekdays; writing this article is pretty much the most I've ever thought about them) And why did the first girl suddenly lose interest in me? They're around 18-20 years old; I'm also around that age.