Since this thread has revived whatever happened in this relationship Grinus? You 2 still talking or have you moved on?

Yes It happend to me, and when I kept quiet (inside/out) it became more "movie like", "dramatic", whateva you want to call it.

@rkd1990:
Why do you think this happen specifically? Like 'messing up the vibe due to talking'...?

I think personally is the ego trying to hold on to this particular experience rather tan let go and enjoy while it lasts, what I can conclude is that; the experience is not mean for him, sadly the most beautiful things in the world are not meant for him (EGO, false self). And he suffers.

@ Resonance:

I can't speak for Grinus, but I have a strong feeling that they are still talking.

It hasn't been said in this thread yet, but there isn't a reason to get super excited about these moments.

What I mean is that every single person on the board will have these moments, and guess what...chances are that you will open

your mouth and say something and the shit will go down.

The situation is so easy to miss, but it's damn hard to avoid if you get what mean.

Dali, I had a hard time understanding what you wrote.

Grinus is probably better to answer the question because I haven't experienced the feeling as much as him. I've had it happen 2 times in my life.

The situation is "movie like" because your reality is altered. The person is like a piece of you. You don't ever see people that resemble you.

Your mind actually goes into overdrive analyzing details. Consequently, the way you perceive your surroundings and the person is heightened from the overdrive.

I don't think it has much to do with the ego, at least this is the case for me. Both times it happened to me the women weren't exceptionally pretty, but they were psychologically and physically similar to me.

I didn't cop the first time because I started trying to do to much. The second time it happened, I copped because I was short on time, in a hurry, and I couldn't think of shit to say besides "hi...my name is..."

The point is that both times...I couldn't help but open my mouth.

The difference with the second time is that I just literally could not compel myself to dick around.

What I mean is that I introduced and then I just moved on in my mind. I did what I always do. I sparked a cigarette and then I was just basically watching the shit happen because the girl took the initiative for everything afterwards.

Jack Foley: It's like seeing someone for the first time, like you can be passing on the street, and you look at each other for a few seconds, and there's this kind of a recognition like you both know something. Next moment the person's gone, and it's too late to do anything about it. And you always remember it because it was there, and you let it go, and you think to yourself, 'What if I had stopped? What if I had said something?' What if, what if... it may only happen a few times in your life.

Karen Sisco: Or once.

Jack Foley: [softly] Or once.