I saw them later in the smoking section so I joined them (don't smoke) she nodded up at me like she was trying to get my attention I gave one shake of my head no. So she turned around and wrapped some other guy around her finger. I just cannot find it in myself to care. Like I'm still in the group talking to people but really could care less what she is up to.
Oh you care...that's why you have so much detail to speak on regarding her. In fact, one could argue that this post is about trying to convince us (and yourself) that you were ignoring her...when you were really doing almost everything BUT.
YOU joined THEM in the smoking section...and you don't even SMOKE?!? Then why even go? Really, you outed yourself as soon as you said that you 'joined THEM'. You kinda like that chick eh?
So, with all of THAT going on...then THIS bit of magic happens:
Same kinda thing inside, I saw one girl walk by me like 4 times in under a minute stop pull out her cell phone and start texting haha. But I know better than to pursue, fuck all that shit she can talk to me or I'm going to bed.
So let me get this straight. You know better than to pursue, but then you spend the majority of the night staying in the 'player' chicks perimeter...but the one chick who gave you some damn obvious subtle signs and symptoms of jocking...gets utterly IGNORED?
Come on, man...speaking to that chick who is obviously in your shit isn't pursuing...it's EVIDENCE BASED APPROACHING. Following the other chick around all night while attempting to convince yourself that you don't give two shits about her?...that is just plain AWFUL.
Bottom Line: You were so invested in not letting the 'player' have her way with you (EGO)...that you allowed yourself to become consumed with it to the point that you ignored a very good prospect...and probably many more that you failed to notice due to your tunnel vision.
Looks like another round of ego suppression exercises is in order...
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