Okay, now is the culmination of the fun around me :
My mother have a new (one month now) housemate, 19yo girl.
She used to do online dating back where she lived (north east of france) a year ago :
Some 68 yo dudes coming onto her, and others.
Two weeks ago, she did it again :
Some 50+ yo guy said that he looked for a young girl to take care of her, nice meals, travels, good house ... in exchange for ? you guess.
But, some dudes of the same age (like 18-25 yo) sent her messages too, and the thing is when they meet, she throw herself at them on the first night (probably the guys think that they're awesome ^^), but for what she said, she can't control herself ... now that's something interesting.
She's "buxom, fleshy" but nice looking gal in my opinion.
She said to my mother to join this site (badoo if some know), and she did.
Some days passed and my mother has a "date" with an italian dude, which during the date says he's married ... his wife is in germany, he finds hard to stay alone in this country, doesn't speak french at all...
After the date he sends a message to my mom : "oh yeah I want to try an anal relationship, are you interested ?" (yeah you read it right
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Enough to say that she DIDN'T agree and is not planning to see him again ...
Another guy (who gave his msn) involved the lower side of his body naked in his photo and saying "Do you have any photos yourself ?"
My mother convinced my sister to join too, and (surprisingly ?), one of the guys my housemate has met (which they planned on seeing eachother again later) contacted her saying he wants a stable relashionship, blah blah.
The interesting part is that he contacted by mail my sister (which obviously for her didn't respond) 5 minutes before saying to my housemate "I don't think it will work between us, forget me".
The funniest was today, my other housemate (the brazilian one) had a tiny fight (over a suitcase) with her bf and he left our house, she contacted him because she couldn't find something to put on the suitcase (her makeup) and thought it was him. During the convo she said "are you planning to come back or we meet at the bus station (to go to his place in Nice) ?" he says he comes back.
When my mother said "where is he ?", she said "He left but now he's coming back like a little dog"
Boy that's fun
Some things to consider :
My mother says she still wants romance, at 57 yo (she is menopausal)
My sister was still in love until recently with her ex, but now seems to be back again on track of finding another one.
The brazilian girl seems to get her shit together now, maybe ruling the relashionship now ... good for her.
The new one, I still don't know, I won't define her (is she easy, a little lost, naive ?) until I have more evidence.
All that to say that online dating for an external viewer is better than a comedy show ^^
I also wants to add that men really look like dorks (to exagerate : old pedophiles, exhibitionists, chasers (will fuck anything they can) while women do not seem to find a good one for them, like that's not their faults they find a mate on an online dating site which doesn't seem to be legit (more of an adultery / sex sharing site).