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Something that blew this shit wide open for me was learning, or unlearning rather....that trying to create rapport and commonalities with girls does not create attraction (I use to do this)! Keep the frame that you are the prize, you make her jump through hoops and qualify herself always....and when you're with her you never give all of yourself to her, you're aloof and not that intrested at all. Guys she has rapport with go in the friend zone, read me? She only has girl talk and closeness with guys she won't let fuck her.

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Oh well. ManniJa I know you are much more experienced that I am but I want to write few words on this anyways..

Rapport itself may not create attraction, but it may show values, which could be hidden without rapport. And those values may create attraction, if that's what she needs..
What paid off for me personally was not trying to make rapport or anything, just giving space.. Resulted into creating what we could call rapport, but I didn't really care about it.

I know you are practically right, but I just don't want some guys to take it literally to the extreme as I did.

Eh, that's a good rule of thumb for guys new to this mindset shift I guess, but if you're doing it right, you're not TRYING to create ANYTHING...it all just kinda flows.

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That's why I said for the new guys 2 smokes!

Fufe, a girl is always looking for something better, a guy with more value...if she "has you" then she'll stay with you until a better option comes along, if she "doesn't have you", then you are always the best option...get me? And this is just a form of giving space really, lot's of space!

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

I'm doing the same as her, then.. You don't ?

I get the "don't have you" concept tho..

Damn....*hands over two smokes*

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when you say "if she doesn't have you"- do you mean that:
A. you are indifferent
and
B. she wants you more than you want her?

or did you mean something else?

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

What does your gut tell you?

It's time for you to start answering most of these questions on your own.

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Yes you are right once again. Sometimes I doubt myself when I shouldn't....

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

You already know the answer Sniper

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Why was my question avoided anyways ?

U guys don't do it the same way, really ?

I didn't understand your question fufe, elaborate.

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

Fufe, the questions we ask that are avoided, we're meant to answer ourselves.

That's part of us walking the path when having it shown to us.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

Well I'm the same, I look for better girls, with more values.. If I was with a girl I liked and girl with more values showed up and digged me, of course I would go for the second girl too.. You guys wouldn't ?

Sometimes yes

Sometimes no

Sometimes I would ponder it for a while, before making a decision, while observing and weighing things up.

What appears to be the next best shiny thing is not always that, once you look more closely at it.

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In building a statue, a sculptor doesn't keep adding clay to his subject.He keeps chiseling away at the inessentials until the truth of its creation is revealed without obstructions. Perfection is not when there is no more to add,but no more to take away.

Bird in the hand...

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I have to agree with this one because in a lot of seduction schools they teach you to try and have rapport with a girl by mirroring her and stuff like that. In reality it might work good in business But when it comes to seduction: for the most part it's a huge mistake and waste of time.

why? because when you try to have rapport with a girl you are making her the prize and it's one way ticket to the friend zone. However, when a girl is attracted to You and sees you as a man for power- she will try to make rapport with You.

that's my experience...

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

I don't mirror women...I look for the women that are subconsciously mirroring me.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

Pimposophy Revisited is now finally available on Amazon in all territories!

that's what the seduction teachers should have taught but they got it backwards

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

Lol, man I do that shit too. It was only after I started reading this pimpin shit and changed my perspective. Sometimes their speed and reflectiveness (mirror quality) is down right creepy. The sucky part is that they may still subconsciously (mostly or at least generally) not know that they like you. They always do light up though when you speak to them.