Imo, it was an interesting piece; alothough I don't agree enterly with the suggested solutions. I do think the analasys of the current position is awesome.
Especially, I like how he points out.
Where the power (imbalances) are, between men and women.
Imo, many men fail to recognize and use, where they have power over women of. And that is strength. Now physical strength we can't use, since it's forbidden. But the fact remains, that most women feel they need to feel the strenght a man easy. Since they feel and know they lack that.
I think a man can show his strenght by for examples: telling her what he wants/likes and sticking with it; handling (social) tention without breaking it; looking her in the eye; initiating physical contant; etc..
Those things, make her feel safe. And somehow chciks seem to need/crave to feel strenght.
Anyways, here is the link:
http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/20 ... utopia.pdf
To finish, with a quote I once heared and hold to be truthfull and (try to) life by:
"When need and greed meets. The last one usually wins, because greed outweights need. Thus find the need of the other, and you yourself strive to deprive yourself from as much need as you can."
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