From what I read, you seem to be good with the social part (and looks). Which alows you to meet many girls, thus the more you meet the more chances you have (statistically).
maybe I am not being sexual enough.
Its seems that at the sexual part, stuff goes wrong.
Since I don't know you, it's almost impossible to say what the reason is. It probably also is that you have views/believes that f* it up for you? Or other things, like counter productive habits? Fr example, like when it comes to attracting sex, I notice many guys don't go with a women that likes them and doesn't involve alot of work to get into bed, because if a girl is more easy they somehow don't want that. And then they bitch about women being so difficult, while I seem to notice they seek out those types and let the non-difficlut ones go.
I feel like they always end up winning and in their mind "got me" and I dont like that.
This sounds like you and the woman are in a competition here? Since you talk about winning and loosing.
To add my view. Although it's true that on some level it's a competition. I've found that it's best when we both at least don't feel like we are in a competition. But feel the opposite, that we're both in/on the same team; and helping each other out with and on all sorts of levels.
I have a badboy look and a badboy persona. am I a good guy I just have that though because of my tattoos, shaved head and rough demeanor.
What kind/type of girls do you attract with that type of style usually (if there is one), if I may ask? Since, me first front looks totally differently I can hardly imagine.
To share my style. I look quit orderly and neat, yet (I'm 28) look like 23 orso. It goes well really the women in there 30's, and also good with women in their 23 till 26 orso. The other ages groups I don't know, but they don't care much for me in general.
I am use to being on the creep with women and that is how I handle myself with them anymore.
Explain? What was creepy about it?
My opinion about creepy. Something is creepy, when I do something sexual when a girl that isn't into me sexually. Yet when I do the same thing with a girl that is into me sexually, it's a big turn on/sexy/hot.
Not being creepy all comes down to gauging if the women is up for you sexually. Usually eye contact, and being comfortable (or not) with you standing/sitting close; tells if she is (at that moment) or not. Ime.
It is hard for me to get sexual with a girl I have some respect for unless she iniates it first.
To be frank, ssounds like a fucked up idea/believe to me ears.
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