Women accept this may be a temporary state.

Sadly a lot of men do not, they think it is permanent.

When you are no longer the reason to allow it, it will not be there anymore.
It is down to you as a man.

love between a man and a woman or between friends is nothing more than an exchange of values. Once there is no value the 'love' is gone.

I beleive in universal\spiritual love but it's not between a man and a woman and it's hard to achieve it. I think people like the dalai lama have achieved it but there are not many like him.

Of course love exists... It's just not what's going on between a man and a woman in a relationship. Many times it's just neediness and they call it love.

Indeed. These two are different things.

Consciousness Levels;

Desire calibrates at 125
Love at 500
Unconditional Love at 540

This is not a Newtonian Universe, Newton himself calibrated
at 499 (Level of Reason, which is in fact a high level in itself).

At 540 there is all kind of phenomena that cannot be explained
by the Newtonian paradigm.

"Motherly Love is unconditional
My opinion: because it's BIOLOGICAL. (Protect, Survival, maybe has some spiritual tie too)


Evolution invalidates that....a mother will routinely kill off the weaker members of the litter to insure the survival of the strong

Then what's left, when you strip away the illusion...women are too fickle to have any real feelings for.

If I had a choice between being able to experience emotions or not, I'd chose the latter.

Then what's left, when you strip away the illusion...women are too fickle to have any real feelings for.

If I had a choice between being able to experience emotions or not, I'd chose the latter.

I concur

Love is not an emotion, it is an energy. A very real and tangible energy that can be felt and known. This is why you say it feels real, because it is real yet your mind wants to convince you it is not. The only amount of Love a person can feel is the amount they allow themself to feel. If a girl says she loves you, and she is genuine in that she does feel love, then she has allowed herself to feel this love because she deems you worthy of love. When she no longer deems you worthy of love she cuts it off within herself, leading her to believe she is no longer in love with you. But she was never in love with you, she just allowed herself to feel Love because, in her mind, you were the reason to allow this love. Unconditional Love is knowing that Love comes from within and that nothing outside can change this unless it is allowed to.

I guess it depends it's good to have your own emotional world. But it doesn't have to play a role in your decisions or collide with other people's emotions.