Natural Freedom

That perfectly sums up the lesson I'm learning now.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

What I'm saying is that she does not have our belief system, therefore, from her perspective, it isn't applicable.

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EVERYTHING in life is conditional...EVERYTHING.

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Ok I see, Thank you.

BTW
that reminds me of your story Kidd. Your keeper said she loves you but what she really loved is your value. Once you acted like a different man with different values system- she got spooked & if you didn't know what you know and continued to act like that, then the 'love' would have probably been over.

Intresting story that was:

http://www.naturalfreedom.info/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=1031

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"a sniper is the worst romancer, he never makes the first move"

End of thread!

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The honey doesn't chase the bee.

A wise man once said "I find that a duck's opinion of me is influenced by whether or not I have bread."

If you can´love yourself unconditionally...

Love yourself first, unconditionally. As within so without.

There are no outer relationships in life, everything is inner.
You can´t point out where your relationship with a woman
exists in the outer world, therefore your relationships are
always within yourself. Consequently, your relationship with
someone is always exactly what you think it is.

That´s how S.Pavlina said it.

Unconditional Love is reached by 0,4% of people, that´s
four in a thousand.

JOY is without polarity, and LOVE is its companion.

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Of course love exists... It's just not what's going on between a man and a woman in a relationship. Many times it's just neediness and they call it love.

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“The only real valuable thing is intuition.”
Albert Einstein.

Indeed. These two are different things.

Consciousness Levels;

Desire calibrates at 125
Love at 500
Unconditional Love at 540

This is not a Newtonian Universe, Newton himself calibrated
at 499 (Level of Reason, which is in fact a high level in itself).

At 540 there is all kind of phenomena that cannot be explained
by the Newtonian paradigm.

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Hi Jared, I'm curious... Who inventend this "Scale of Consciousness Level"?
And what about the numbers?, what is this reference comes from?

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GMST

"Motherly Love is unconditional
My opinion: because it's BIOLOGICAL. (Protect, Survival, maybe has some spiritual tie too)


Evolution invalidates that....a mother will routinely kill off the weaker members of the litter to insure the survival of the strong

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

I know, agree, but read carefully morpheus, this do not invalidate the; Protection & survival logic behind it... and It can be in any order, maintaning the preservation of the fittest specimens.

The balanace nature has... sometimes, can seem ruthless to our sensitive minds... Big Deal.

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GMST

Then what's left, when you strip away the illusion...women are too fickle to have any real feelings for.

If I had a choice between being able to experience emotions or not, I'd chose the latter.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

I concur

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~There's weakness in the hearts of all humans are you afraid to acknowledge yours... ~
Mr. Todo

But You don't... All we can do is accept this.

Isn't this a form of resistance from your part?... just asking.

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It is resistance on my part yes, but when I develop stronger feelings for a girl I can see where it will lead, like a premonition and my gut's always right, I hate fucking up.

It's only when I push those feelings back inside or accept them and they dissolve that things go back to normal and they're attracted again, women indirectly let me know where my mindset is, I don't trust anything they say, if they ever try to tell me something I look for the meaning behind their words and for what purpose they're using them to try and keep me asleep.

Letting go I've only started to learn, I'm exploring finding a balance between the two, I'm fully aware that indulging in my emotions ultimately fucks things up so I opt for pushing them back, at the same time I must accept myself as I am despite these emotions.

So it's a matter of pulling out those weeds I guess, this is what I'm constantly reminded of as of late.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

I guess it depends it's good to have your own emotional world. But it doesn't have to play a role in your decisions or collide with other people's emotions.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

This post is just beautiful

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"The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn."
Alvin Toffler

This really hit the nail on the head dude, it's always good to read back for perspective.

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"Simply put, you being in her life is a BLESSING. Her wronging you in any way is her own self-inflicted CURSE, and if she does wrong you, then let the punishment fit the crime. Her life will absolutely SUCK without you."

Yeah, sometimes you even find stuff you missed.

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"The heart is deep beyond all things, and it is the man. Even so, who can know him."

Motherly love isn´t unconditional because of the
separation between the one who loves (mother) and the
one who is loved (child).

"Love is not to be learned from men." ---Vernon Howard

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