Firstly some quotes to start things off:
this girl is new in town and going through a dry spell
the other two are basically pimping me out
this girl keeps making comments about how she really wants a boyfriend and she really wants some
Seeing as she's new in town and my friends are goin away when I get back she won't have any friends here,
I'm gonna take her aside and say something like "since you're new in town and don't know anyone let's hang out sometime"
How is any of this relevant?
This is her dipping her toe in the water, seeing what the temperature is like and checking that it is water and not oil or something else.
She is also telling her friend what she wants, in girl speak.
She is also watching your and the other guys reactions and weighing things up.
SHE IS NEW IN TOWN... ok fair enough, this means she has
very few options currently. She is looking to improve her options, plain and simple.
She stands more of a chance of that through her friend than through you two guys unless you are well connected.
None of that was about you, in my view. It could become about you at some point.
this girl obviously wants some and she told me she's been getting amorati type dudes complimenting her and shit like that which she's not used to (doubtful),
whilst I know she's not attracted to these dudes, if she wanted some so bad (which she made clear at the table) then why doesn't she just take one of these guys home?.
Do not listen to what she says, listen to how she says it and what she really means.
It is not about those guys, it is about her, what she is saying (not the words).
There is a gameplan here, all is not as it seems on the surface.. Have a good think about what else you observed, you have given some clues but have also missed bits out (I KNOW YOU HAVE!).
I'm just wondering if there's anything I neglected to pick up on, and if it would have been possible to say what I had planned to say earlier on or would it have been too soon?.
She will show her cards soon, if she wants to play.
She is already playing to some degree, it is how much you notice that is important.
Unless she is blatantly throwing it at you, give her the space to indirectly proposition YOU...and when she does, recognize it and react accordingly.
I agree with this.
Because nothing I saw in the above was her propositioning YOU!
It was about her and your friends and the town.