You don’t need to be a robot you just need to relax and take a few deep breaths, don’t be attached to the outcome enjoy the process change your mindset about the whole journey you are currently on.
After I pocked the dollar, I asked her why give it and she said she didn't know
Space filling Sin #1 Just enjoy that she is qualifying herself to you that she’s letting you know she is a viable mate.
Don’t ask unnecessary questions she most likely won’t understand it herself anyway just as she stated above.
I forget who initiates our conversations the most, think it's pretty balanced but I feel like I say "Hi" more. That doesn't mean I try to talk to her all the time though. Our interactions are give and take, neither side willing to concede to the other.
As long as it happens naturally its fine but she needs to be more worried about you than you are about her. You need to focus on establishing yourself and prioritizing your life, things like this will eventually become the norm.
"if you build it they will come"
Space filling sin #2 You saying more than she is
She should be doing the most initiating but this isn’t black and white though, but it is looking more and more like a struggle for control.
Later after that convo I ask if she wants to hangout the next day and she says sure. We write down and exchange numbers. I tell her to call me. She asks why I smirk and tell her "to see if you're serious." She huffs seemingly in a mix of exasperation and amusement. I falter a bit here and fill space asking her later if she really would do it but she says yes.
Next day, wanting to see her I let impatience get the best of me again and text her my info first. She calls an hour later. I text her back asking if that was indeed her, but I get no response.
When I see her again, she mentions that she had actually lost my number and wasn't sure who was contacting her. I tell her that she had called my phone but she said she didn't yet. So I attributed that phone call to a mistake; she had mentioned that she sleeps with her phone close by, so it could have been an accident
In the first paragraph space filling sin #2 You didn’t commit to nor did you believe in your decision you should ask yourself why, you actually set a really good tone on this end. But you bombed because you were attached to the outcome, success and failure are impostors that should be treated the same its either a blessing or a lesson.
I was pissed she didn't follow through but whatever, things are normal and we still interact. We still touch each other. The last day I saw her that week, as she was walking away from me she tickled a male co-worker's hips with both hands from behind. My co-worker turned around and said something akin to: "That's a little dirty." To which she responded. "I treat everyone like that."
That was interesting. I wondered if she was thinking of my attention at that time.
Sin #3 Getting emotionally invested when you 2 aren’t even dating
You’re attached to the outcome heavy with this girl you should really reflect why you need things to go your way with her.
The fact she went out of her way to do this to someone else was definitely to get a rise out of you it was her shit test number 2 kudos to you on ignoring that shit.
I would let this die honestly for the sake of your job but should she invite you out I would be petty and have her make up for the transgression for failing to follow through on the plan last time you 2 were supposed to chill by having her pay for the date, if you were that upset about the situation but she definitely needs to experience a consequence or she will walk all over you.
Overall I would leave this broad alone if co-workers saw you 2 acting like that in a professional setting either or both of you could get terminated you also really need to think about haters on both dudes and ladies, not everyone there will approve of this relationship and not everyone want to see you succeed. Also you really have to think about Feminism if its heavy in your location you will be going to jail and you will listed as a sexual predator on the internet for the world to see basically should she decide you fucked her over for whatever reason, just look at the Hollywood situation.
If I was you i would slowly ease the tension and just become platonic friends with her, your livelihood should be a priority over vagina but thats your choice. I had typed this differently but each time this session timed out so I will leave it as is and I hoped I answered your questions
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