• #7: “The way he reacts for woman he has feelings for”
o He never allows his internal feelings for a woman, to affect his outward actions or responses, directly or indirectly.
o There’s nothing wrong with feeling or attraction towards a woman, as long as it doesn’t affect your outwards show.
o How to manage your inner reaction:
Technique # 1: Keep breathing: Take a slow deliberate deep breath, be calm! Regulate your breathing.
Technique # 2: Relax your muscles: Do not tense up! Do not lean forward. Instead lean back (physically relaxed state). External appearance that you are unaffected by her beauty.
Technique # 3: Find a flaw: What’s wrong with her? Maybe her legs aren’t perfectly straight; maybe she’s wearing funny looking shoes. ‘Her hair is out of place’, ‘her nose is too big’, find something ‘wrong’ with her, even if it’s a minor flaw.
INTERNAL STATE MANAGMENET… VERY IMPORTANT!
Technique # 4: Try to view the whole room in a 3rd view person: Imagine that you are seeing yourself, you are seeing her and you are seeing the room, this detaches you emotionally from that situation. Think clearly, Act clearly. (*learn to switch logic over emotion*)
No matter how beautiful she is, no matter how charming. (You are always in control, always calm) SELF ASHURED.
The calmest person in the room is the leader (Think clearly)
Don’t allow the situation intimidate you. (*logic*)
Not yielding to temptation (*patience*)
Not allowing your state manage you (*switch between emotion & logic*)
How you react is what cements her decision (When she invites you to fuck) (*role reversal, possibilities*)
Reward them for deciding to court you by being cool about it and encouraging them to do this more by being inspired.
• #8: “The archetypal male it’s a good communicator, specially, of what he wants”
o One which can clearly explain what he wants; what their objective is.
o Someone who’s not afraid to tell what they want to do. Not afraid to be decisive.
o Having values, having opinions. It’s sexy.
o Speak clearly, decisively and forcefully. (That’s only half of being a good communicator, the other half its listening skills)
o Get them talking about themselves!
o Ask questions, everyone is their one “Fan Topic” (*Cherry picking*)
o Disagreeing it’s ok, (Aggressive disagreement talk about some strong adherence to your ideas and some emotional button thus revealed)
o Ex. (Winston Churchill)
o Allows her to do most of the talking
o Take what she’s saying and make fun of her (banter, playful, lighthearted conversation)
o Mimic her behaviors
o Playful, but shots that you’re in control (*Ball stealing*)
o Selective hearing (*Cherry picking*)
o Sexual banter (Conveying that you might be interested)
o Girls will tell you exactly what’s necessary to sleep with them (Listen skills, *observation skills, analysis skills, stacking evidence*)
o They’ll give you the keys to the castle (They will show you the ways the like to be seduced)
o The guys think they have to lead (Ex. By doing all the talking)
o Or to manipulating her into some kind of behavior.
o Leading by asking questions.
o Ask, open ended question.
o The more she tells you, the more she has to talk, and the more you make fun of them.
o The more opportunities there are to twist the conversation to have selecting hearing, play this type of game.
o It’s not about, (being direct, or indirect) not walking up and saying: “Look you would make a great girlfriend, so you should be my girlfriend” NOT THAT!
o Good communicator, is not outgoing communication. (*Overt interest*, *playing your cards the dumb way*)
o Listening is more important than speaking yourself.
o Creative misinterpretation.
• #9: “It’s not shaken by outside events”
o He is in control (*let it go*)
o Understands what’s happening, it’s interested in what’s going on, but maintains a calm sense of serenity about it. No matter what happens he’ll be able to deal with it. (*LET IT GO*)
o Archetypal male outside events don’t fluster you.
o Panic it’s not something you’ll see an archetypal male do.
o Evaluate then act decisively.
o Be consistent
o Unflappable, be steady in the storm.
o Most people, desperately want to follow in every situation (*self-reliance*, *responsibility*, *accountability*)
o Natural leaders (*being alone*)
o People going to do what you say; your reality is going to be stronger
o Whose reality is stronger?
o Calm, rock solid, stronger reality
o Brent example of one dude (liberated from the matrix) (*butterfly*, *pimp tight*, not wanting anything) Talking with people.
o You are the light at the end of the tunnel.
o You cannot help somebody if you are in the same situation (place) that they are, you have to be liberated.
• #10: “Comfortable in your own skin”
o Being comfortable with you (*Being your best friend*, *Accepting the things that you can’t possibly change*, *Working the hell out of things that you can*)
o Woman match and mirror your behavior (*MIRROR*)
o Calm, cool collected.
o If you are being nervous, edgy & unsure (She’ll… you know!)
o They’re very empathetic individuals EXTREMELY empathetic, [*mirror of your emotional state*]
o Totally comfortable with who you are. If you consider yourself valuable they’ll find you the same if not better way (*mirror*)
o Get to this point… Through affirmations (Note: This guy’s start to discuss about affirmations, and the Scientifics reasons behind the neurotransmitters and all that brain biochemical mumbo jumbo and shit, positive hormones, change in behaviors)
o He doesn’t need any kind of outside justification (*mindset*)
o Looking outside of you for any kind of justification or validation is losing program. NOT GONNA HELP YOU. (*Ego*)
o Look inside for your validations,
o Validation doesn’t come from outside.
o If it comes from outside people, they are going to manipulate you.
o Trading validation from whatever they want in you (NOT USEFUL)
o Self-validated (You don’t want anything from yourself
o (Note: Again this guy’s start with affirmations), I suggest: (*subconscious tapping*, *dig deeper*, *internal inquiry* *REAL INNER WORK*)
o They treat you as you tell them to treat you (*mirror*)
o Vibe conveyed to them verbally; what you tell them!
o Energy doesn’t have boundaries.
o Approving of you, finding yourself sexy. Finding yourself confident.
o Visualizations (The key to this is getting excited about this, injecting emotions to the visualizations)
o Being that guy
o People treat them accordingly
• #11: “You are the cause in your world, not the effect”
o Whatever you are doing, you’re the cause of it
o You’re not reacting to the world, the world it’s reacting to you.
o People are guests in your world; you’re not a guest in theirs.
o You’re the cause of everything is going around you.
o You’re not reacting to the comments of others
o You’re not reacting to the will of others.
o Others are reacting to your will
o It’s a matter of taking control of your own life
o Owning your own life
o Controlling the only things that you can (*Accepting the things that you can’t possibly change*, *Working like hell with the things that you can change*)
o Complete control of your life, you’re taking responsibility to some level (*things that you can control*)
o Responsibility, on everything that happen around you (*internally and externally*)
o If this things are outside your cause and effect spectrum.
o If you can’t do anything about it.
o Being a cause in your world means: you’re taking responsibility for everything that happens around you
o Modify that environment that suits your needs (*if the grass is not greener anymore, the pimp migrate to some other place*)
o Powerful view of the world
o Breaks limiting beliefs
o Make the changes
o Needs, wants & desires
o Stop playing the victim
o When you’re the cause you’re not the victim
o A victim cannot do anything
o If a girl walks away from you, it’s ok, it’s her loss.
o If you did something wrong in your approach to her, being a cause, mean when she walks away; ok alright… did I broke a rule? I won’t do that again.
o LET IT GO (ALWAYS) either if you caused it or her, the most healthy thing is let it go.
o If you get immediately obsessed with it, and then play the victim, (PLEASE DON’T DO THAT)
o Become obsessed with the one that got away!
o Either way you have to let it go!
o Don’t try to go back and try to fix it.
o Learning from it and the, changing your mindset (behavior) after that.
o “There’s no particular situations”
o Rick H answer: Stop reaching out for validation. Stop trying to validate yourself through someone else.
o Stop trying to fix it (Let it go)
o If you are obsessed with it (you’re still carrying it)
o It’s like wearing a digital sign in your chest (across) and everything that you are attached it’s constantly going across. (People can actually READ your vibe)
o Projecting Important point
o Whatever you’re thinking PAINTS.
o Everything you’re doing or everything you’re trying to be (Every interaction it’s painted ‘tinted’ by it)
o First impressions. (The cues that you gave her)
o How she learn to treat you (finish how you start)
o When you tried to change it up, that’s why so weird for her.
o Start out by being this guy (the pursued), FROM THE GET GO.
o Realize and assimilate everything,
o Being a cause
o Victim it’s the default state, so don’t go there.
o People looking for a leader.
o Leading trough example (live it)
o Being inspiring.
• #12: “Understands culture”
o Themes, what is going on, multiple and various skillsets
o “Good at everything”
o Multiple hobbies, multiple skillsets.
o Know little bit about everything.
o Knowing about cool and unusual things.
o Renaissance man. (Literature, art, culture, sociology, psychology, well versed)
o It’s a chameleon
o Adapt, (not about being a know it all, context, situation comes up, you have that skill)
o Often times teach people about it
o You know things but you don’t rub it in people’s faces
o You’re not making a big deal about it.
o You are an attractive package
o You don’t consider exceptional you consider this normal.
o If you’re not making a big deal about it, then it’s normal.
o In her eyes, you’re some kind of superhero.
o He is always cool, always the cause and always know a little bit about everything
o Know a little bit about a 20 than a lot about 2 things
o Brain growing, keeps you sharp.
o It’s not for woman it’s for your life. Improving the quality of your life.
o Life it’s fun.
• #13: “He is not invested in a single outcome”
o He is flexible, adaptable
o Outcome from the big picture, the big perspective (*seeing the forest, not the trees*)
o Abundance (*No oneitis!*) Stop doing this!
o Don’t worry about it
o He is not paying attention to the ones that are not interested
o He is not even aware of it
o He is not chasing, the ones that don’t like you aren’t even on your radar anyway.
o I cannot think of a single woman that wasn’t into me.
o Shure there were lots of them, but we don’t notice them!
o Sorting through the women that are interested in you, not for the ones that aren’t.
o Move forward
o You’re not chasing her, she’s chasing you.
o Any woman chasing you it’s into you, therefore ALL woman are into you.
o Productive beliefs systems.
o Being chased by the ones that like you.
o If you complain that only ugly girls chase you, then start talking to beautiful woman.
o Give them an opportunity to be with you, make fun of them.
o Look thing for BIG PICTURE PERSPECTIVE.
o One girl is not your big picture situation, look at the whole picture.
• #14: “Give yourself permission and believe you deserve and can hold a beautiful woman”
o An exceptional one.
o You’re valuable, you’re exceptional yourself.
o Belief system extremely valuable+
o Permission to have one, and deserved issue.
o Because who he is
o “Rough edges” never let those rough edges get filed off.
o (*Indomitable beast, this keeps intrigue, mystery and gives the woman a sense of vanity because she thinks she can change or tame him*)
o Rough edges (*Front* *Hook* *baits a fish*)
o Try to fix in you, are the things that attracted her in the first place, they probably didn’t realize it.
o Staying true to who he is.
o You’re following all your rules
o He deserves to have whatever woman he chooses.
o One or multiple hot women.
o Hold them as long as you choose.
o Belief system of an archetypal male, (hold belief, becomes true)
o Don’t veer off in some weird tangent.
o If it ain’t broke, don’t fix them.
o Classic mistake, doing everything right and then changing your behavior. (NO NO!)
o Then wondering why she is with somebody else right now.
o Technique vs. Who you are.
o Relaxed becoming lazy (“*David X*”)
o Work on yourself first
o Archetypal make that embodies all the techniques that are simulations of core characteristics (man)
o Becoming who you are, make them an habit
o “Biochemical connections, affirmations”
o Flow, vibe, right thing, right way.
o Its natural, effortless.
o Do the work now.
o You become what you think about it.
o Behavior that gets stronger with practice. Calm confidence.
o Try new things, having fun.
o Allows you to be more innovative.
• #15: “They are cater to, and that they don’t cater others"
o Even when he is doing somebody a favor, he’ll make an excuse that he is making for selfish reasons.
o Reason: Useful technique, know that you are not taking credit for the favor. Even if it’s outlandish.
o A lot of self-worth, a self-value.
o Value your time, your energy, you’re valuable person.
o You’re bringing a lot to the table.
o People will benefit for you association.
o Expect people to want to be around you
o I’m being chased.
o A number of people that are competing for your time.
o Being pursued people will start to cater you.
o You don’t take credits for doing things for people.
o “Modesty” humility
o Opposite of normal behavior
o Be gracious about it
o Help people become successful
o Selfless thing.
o That’s normal
o Ex. (Han solo in starwars)
o Don’t want credit for being hero.
o Subtle, the more subtle your communication the better the woman will understand you.
o Never do COMPLAIN
o Using self-depreciating complaint
o Victim, being lonely, looser, being dumped bad luck. (Never introduce this themes)
o As far as you’re concerned you have a helluva GOOD LUCK.
Note: It still have a little missing fragment about COMPLAINING. But I've not taken the appropiate notes.
Sniper or peregrinus, if you guys want can compile this into single post.