"tell you what type of pimpin works on her".

Because....When a woman is interested in you, you will/SHOULD know it. (FYI: This will probably be long lol)

Let's say your on a train/bus/walking down the street/waiting to cross the street/standing in a check out line (somewhere the girl is by herself)...chances are...if she finds you attractive she will have ALREADY spotted you BEFORE you saw her. With women it's all about eye contact. If she thinks you're cute, she WILL make eye contact with you. The first one is usually a quick flash to make sure she's correct on your level of attractiveness. If you catch her MORE than once...it should be a done deal. Period. She WANTS you to stop and talk to her.

Okay....so on to the headphone thing. I'll use a train in my example:

You get on a train and see a cute chick sitting a few rows down..but she's not looking at you. Truth is...she's already spotted you when you were first getting on. However, now she's keeping her eyes straight ahead so you don't catch her looking. As soon as you look away she looks again (the quality check). After this, I'm sure you as the guy will try and do some "incognegro" tactic to look at her again. This time she may actually smile. THIS, gentlemen, is your cue. The odds are especially in your favor if she smiles/smirks/or moves her mouth in some other gesture to KEEP from smiling. To a woman, she's already kind of put it out there that's she's interested if you keep catching her eye. It's because she wants you to come and approach her. I don't care if she has in headphones, reading a book, talking with friends, etc.....she wants it. It's now up to YOU to be confident and say something.

After you approach her just say Hello and she will say it back (if she's interested) then ask her what she's listening to. I can bet money that 9 times out of 10 she will respond. At first she will take out one earphone just to see what you've got to say. PLEASE don't disappoint her...once you do that she shuts down and back to the music she goes. If you've managed to pique her intrest, she will continue the conversation, take out the other earphone, wrap it up and put the phone away. Hell, she may even invite you to sit down once the nosy old lady sitting next to her gets up. After that, it SHOULD be smooth sailing. If not..it's your own fault.

NOW, if you aren't geting ANY of these signs or no cooperation AT ALL.....that means she's NOT interested. There's no changing her mind, no talking her into it....even if you manage to get her number it's probably fake. lol Or like you guys said.....she will just straight ignore you. It's all about knowing when to go in for the kill fellas.

Okay....I'm done. *Drops mic* lol

After you approach her just say Hello and she will say it back (if she's interested) then ask her what she's listening to. I can bet money that 9 times out of 10 she will respond. At first she will take out one earphone just to see what you've got to say. PLEASE don't disappoint her...once you do that she shuts down and back to the music she goes. If you've managed to pique her intrest, she will continue the conversation, take out the other earphone, wrap it up and put the phone away. Hell, she may even invite you to sit down once the nosy old lady sitting next to her gets up. After that, it SHOULD be smooth sailing. If not..it's your own fault.

Bonder, Women do the choosin.

look at the forest, see the trees.

PLEASE don't disappoint her...once you do that she shuts down and back to the music she goes.

You should be your best self and not care if you disappoint her or not. Thus, The Vibe of indifference...

After you approach her just say Hello and she will say it back (if she's interested) then ask her what she's listening to. I can bet money that 9 times out of 10 she will respond. At first she will take out one earphone just to see what you've got to say. PLEASE don't disappoint her...once you do that she shuts down and back to the music she goes.

the artical is good besides this part.

So glad to finally be there.

Yep, getting there