Hi!
I m The GK, a 22 years old guy.
It feels really good to be here, kind off the same feeling I had when I first joined the pickup (PU)-community, but much better
I’ve been in the almost 3 years now (in and out). I’ve been through most of the PU-material, with little/no results. About a 1,5 year in, approaching girls felt more and more like a job (and not a very pleasant one). Most experts/PUAs just told me that I wasn’t working hard enough, and that I just should work harder (talk to even more girls), but that just didn’t felt like good advice for me.
Long story short, I found out that most of the PU-advice just made my self-esteem even weaker than before. I found this blog to be very helpful, which explains why most of the PU-advice is bad for you:
http://lifestylejourney.blogspot.com/
But I still wasn’t ready to let it go (success with woman), because I had already invested so much time into this, so I kept looking for a “cure”. Luckily I found this book some months ago:
http://www.datingcurebook.com/orderthebook.html
The book told me how it is all about self-image and self-esteem and how to change it through visualization. And it got me on to this new path.
My goal now is having woman approach me (and not the other way around), and it’s already starting happening with the advice from the Cure.
I found this blog two days back, and I am really looking forward to hearing about others experiences and sharing mine too
