Greetings all i FINALLY joined this forum after over 4 years of being a passive observer and excited to get involved with it.
First and foremost i would like to say thank you to all on this forum from the kidd, sniper to peregrinus. I have been reading your posts way back up to 2010 before i even joined this forum and they have spured me to make life changing decisions.
For that reason as well as helping those who are where i once was; i have chosen to join this forum . I will help if i can and learn from others as well.
Just a brief overview of my journey and insights I have acquired:
My journey first began in '08 i came across the game
in the airport. And being an analytical geek i quickly began running routines and joined love system forum. Next thing im meeting up with other pua in london practicing "direct"game on the street, stopping women who are literally in motion(and i'm 17 years old lol!!) . Needless to say it opened my mind to possibilities, helped me push out comfort zone and the funny thing was i got more results than the more experienced pua as i had a more natural non-needy vibe.
Nevertheless the whole pick up thing became an obsession and after a couple of months of stopping sets on the street and so on i dropped the whole thing. Too much outcome orientation led to frustration.
In '10 I was looking for something new i came across cory skyy
via this forum. Seemed like a decent guy as well as some stories i heard on here. I was fascinated by the idea of adventure and living life to the fullest; deeply resonated with my mindset.
I began practicing his magnetic mindset affirmations for over a year and in the process joined his 8 week mentoring programme. A made a lot of transformation as a person throughout this period and I am happy to answer any questions about his programme and his philosophy some of it will blow your mind
Nevertheless because I still had an obsession to figure out this whole woman thing out I was still frustrated, I have a feeling practicing affirmations religously 1 hour per day for over a year may have contributed to this(because of the feeling of becoming and other things I won't say in my first post
. One time I said hi to this attractive girl in the club and she literally said lets go home. We got home and she sucked my dick lol but couldn't have sex she was on her period. I was like whatever and the following days she was blowing my phone to meet up and have sex I just couldn't be bothered. The internal feeling of emptiness, frustration and inadequacy had reached a peak and in addition I screwed up my college exam results; I lost sight of being well rounded man and focused all my attention on trying to be better with women.
Needless to say I finally gave it all up
, i gave up on sex and women(even porn ), stopped doing affirmations, I focused on fixing my life and developing myself
. And the next day I felt the greatest peace I have ever felt and shortly after began to commit myself to Christianity. Ironically, it was during this period I met a woman who I ended dating for one year. Because I was so aloof, non-needy and literally "very intriguing" in her words, she kept gravitating to me. I literally would flirt and talk to her and not try to get her number, sex or anything, It confused the hell out of her and brought out her desires. The way we ended up gravitating to each other, keeping in touch, dating, hanging out was so natural, effortless and smooth to the point that I began to think "maybe she is the one."(Now I understand it was because i had truly giving up on wanting that things with women just magically and naturally happen lol)
Eventually she ended up in my bed asking for sex at which point I literally stopped her and said no!That's right guys I went through this whole relationship without having sex once!! She said she fell in love with me when I stopped her having sex, she couldn't understand how I was so different. Needless to say guys throughout the duration of the relationship she tried to mould me into "an ideal man" and eventually I succumbed to being more of a wuss at which point she found someone else to hang out with
no hard feelings
Since being single I have slowly regained my swagger. I came across Rion Williams Natural grounding and sexual mastery; and whilst it does kind of make sense I felt I was getting way too emotional, still putting too much emphasis on women and his products were not living up to what I expected, meeting women is not that complex or deep
(though I had some frustrated and warped emotions rooted in porn from way back). In addition I came across Brent smith teachings and man I deeply connect with his philosophy and mindset.
I started to see a trend amongst the guys who were successful with women..Cory skyy, Spike(former student of Cory Skyy), Brent smith, Jake( former student of Brent), Marcus(Natural grounding), even the Kidd and Grinus on here:
It's not about women it's all about you. Focus on developing yourself to be best man you can be, work on yourself internally and externally. Build a lifestyle that you enjoy and love and live life without limits.
Sound familiar guys
I consistently attract women to me everywhere I go and enjoy connecting with women.Women generally describe me as charming, aloof, sexy, comfortable around women and challenging. Personally I am just being me and living my life
I believe restricting myself from sex for almost 2 years now has definitely helped me to develop very strongly with dealing with women especially the gut and intuition and not wanting because I know I can live without it, however the downside is that many time I find myself so indifferent towards it that I won't take the carefree action to open the opportunity to it. But hey who cares. I would say the greatest things I have learnt so far in my experience is to develop a great relationship with yourself internally and express that outwardly to the world through your lifestyle, image,vibe and persona fearlessly. Live your life how you want, let go of your excuses and take responsibility for where you are and inspire others to do so by living your life to the fullest.
I have much to learn and also a lot of gold to share about my experiences. I look forward to the journey on this forum